Why does my vulva hurt after sex?

After a man and a woman get to know each other and fall in love, as their emotions heat up, they will have the idea of ​​having sex. This is a very normal phenomenon, and sex between men and women will make their emotions stronger. Sex is a part of the relationship between men and women, and sexual harmony will make the relationship more harmonious to a large extent. But sometimes, due to excessive force during sex or incorrect methods, women may feel vulvar pain after having sex. Let's analyze the reasons for this.

The vulva is swollen and painful after sex, which is caused by sex lasting too long or being too intense.

Generally, no treatment is required. Potassium permanganate solution should not be used to wash the vulva, as this will cause further burning of the vulva and make the symptoms more severe. Anti-inflammatory measures are unnecessary as it is not the cause of the inflammation. It is recommended that you wash the vulva with warm water before sexual intercourse, and then wash and dry it with warm water after sexual intercourse. In addition, pay attention to the interest before sex, and have sex after you are excited.

When caressing, it is not recommended to stimulate the clitoris at the beginning, because it is too sensitive and will be a little painful. There are several ways to caress, and they vary from person to person. Everyone may not like the same thing, but they can be used in combination:

1. Initial flirting stage: mainly hugging, kissing, whispering some intimate words, and remember some of the initial excitement areas of women: chest (kiss, caress), back (whole caress), neck (kiss), earlobes (kiss), inner thighs (kiss, caress), feet (you can caress, kissing is a little hard to accept, but some people like it). These can be stimulated in turn, and selectively strengthened according to the other party's reaction. The neck, earlobes, and chest are recommended. Kissing is recommended as the main method. When the other party begins to moan unconsciously, breathe out hot air, and blush, you can move on to the next stage.

2. Stimulation of the labia majora and minora, and vaginal opening: Start by massaging the inner thighs, gradually touching the labia majora and minora. Pay attention to separating the pubic hair in the forward direction (downward) to avoid stinging. Gently stroke the entire genitals (very lightly). Wait until the other person accepts this action, then gradually separate the labia, and lightly massage the labia, urethra, and vaginal opening with your fingertips. In fact, kissing would be very comfortable here because the tongue is soft enough to stimulate the vaginal opening to secrete fluid.

After doing the above steps, you should be able to have sexual intercourse, but if the other person is not strong, you can still do the next few steps

3. Massage the clitoris: Use your fingers to apply enough vaginal secretion lubricating liquid, apply it on the clitoris, massage lightly, and massage other parts of the genitals in turn, starting from light to heavy, but not too heavy, especially the clitoris.

4. Vaginal stimulation, which is the practice of gently and slowly inserting fingers to stimulate the inside of the vagina. It must be done under sufficiently moist conditions. Some people do not like it, while for others, massaging the vaginal opening is enough.

Do the above steps, and when the other person is unconsciously moaning, breathing out hot air, blushing, and the vagina is secreting a lot of wet fluid, you can officially insert it. I won't explain what to do after insertion, anyway, there is some knowledge,

If this still doesn't work, then repeat steps 1-4 selectively, letting the other person orgasm 1-2 times before (immediately) inserting into the partner, and try to orgasm at the same time as the other person, so that multiple orgasms for women feel relatively perfect. After the orgasm, talk and caress for a while, but don't stimulate too much. Judgment of an orgasm: body spasms and tremors, tense body, tight toes, and legs clamped together. A more severe orgasm may cause large amounts of fluid to be ejected, and even lead to coma.