Will it hurt the first time you have inflammation?

For women, the first time having sex is prone to pain. Women should pay more attention to this aspect during their first night, and their lovers should also pay attention to their actions and try to be gentle. In particular, you should pay attention to the cleanliness of your private parts and be sure to avoid any infection problems. You should clean your private parts before and after sexual intercourse. If you do not want to have a child, you should take contraceptive measures.

It is of course good if you are satisfied with the first time and the first few times of sexual intercourse after marriage. But there are also some that are not completely satisfactory, because newlyweds often lack sexual knowledge, and both parties have just started to meet, so they are easily nervous, shy and fearful, so it is normal for them to have a bad sex life. But it’s better to have a good wedding night. Specifically, please note the following points:

1. Pay attention to the hygiene of external genitalia

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Because of purchasing items for the wedding and entertaining relatives and friends, the newlyweds are busy and tired, and the smegma of men and vaginal secretions of women increase. If they are not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

If a man and a woman do not want to have a child right away and do not take birth control pills, both husband and wife will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant. Therefore, her mind cannot be highly concentrated and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate their energy, and sexual life will achieve satisfactory results.

3. Close cooperation and mutual consideration

When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, whose psychological state is more complicated and she is a little nervous. You should ask your husband to be gentle, and if it doesn't work the first time, try a few more times. The woman should also actively cooperate, overcome tension and fear, and relax her mind. She will be sexually aroused quickly, and her vagina will secrete more arousal fluid, which will have a good lubrication effect. This can reduce pain during sexual intercourse and alleviate the pain caused by abrasions of the hymen.

After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with a sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have sexual intercourse 2-3 days later to prevent the wound from becoming infected. If the hymen ruptures and there is heavy bleeding, the tear is deep, and the pain is unbearable, you should see a doctor.

5. Treat premature ejaculation correctly

During first sexual intercourse, the man may experience premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual failure. You should forgive this situation. It is not premature ejaculation. With the increase of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal. Men have a refractory period after ejaculation. After the refractory period, you can try sexual intercourse again, which is often successful.