How to meet the sexual needs of widows?

Sexual needs are a very natural desire of human beings, also called sexual desire. It is a behavior produced by the body under the impulse of reproduction. The implementation of sexual needs can bring people a sense of happiness. Therefore, try not to suppress sexual needs, otherwise it will bring adverse effects to the body. Everyone has different ways to solve sexual needs. For example, how to solve the sexual needs of widows?

According to historical records, there was a famous widow named Qing in the pre-Qin period. Her husband died young, so she took charge of the family business alone.

Ordinarily, in that era, it was socially acceptable for a widow to remarry, but Widow Qing did not remarry. Instead, she tried her best to suppress herself and successfully transferred her desires. She worked hard to run her husband's family's mining business, amassed countless wealth, became the richest person in the area, and even had "a thousand servants."

In the unofficial histories of the Ming and Qing dynasties, one can often read texts about widows who cut off their hair or fingers to show their determination to remain chaste, and were praised by people of their time.

For example, there was an incident that happened during the Jiajing period of the Ming Dynasty. The widow Li Yu had been "staying at home" for many years (note that it was many years), and her family members often suspected that she had an affair with a man from a neighboring village. At a family meeting, Li Yu finally got angry. She stretched out her hands to show everyone, and everyone was stunned to find that all ten of her fingers were broken.

Judging from the female masturbation devices unearthed so far, women have a very long history of masturbation, and most of them were the exclusive domain of widows; married women probably did not need it.

There are many types of instruments used by widows for masturbation, and the materials used are also eye-opening. There are bronze, white jade, and even stone ones. It is really varied. In this regard, the widows gave full play to their intelligence and talents, doing things on their own and inventing things.

The fourth trick is to remarry and find a legal husband . It was not difficult for a widow to remarry in the open-minded Tang Dynasty, but it was indeed harder than climbing to the sky during the Ming and Qing Dynasties when Neo-Confucianism was prevalent. As the saying goes, nothing is difficult if you set your mind to it. There are still some smart widows. They work hard to find men they can entrust their lives to, move around in the family, win sympathy and support, and finally achieve the goal of legally remarrying.