My wife doesn't want to have sex after giving birth

After experiencing the difficult childbirth process, many women have some fear of having sex, and some changes in the reproductive system may also make them lose their sexual desire. In this case, male friends can wait patiently, and at the same time, they need to encourage them more with words, and understand each other through communication, which can solve the problem well.

1. Situation Analysis

Hello, the changes in the reproductive system caused by pregnancy and childbirth will cause a certain lack of sexual desire. Generally, the organs will return to normal two months after delivery and the condition will gradually improve. I suggest that you must communicate more. Include more foreplay and caressing in your sex life.

Condition Analysis:

Hello! Postpartum changes in the body and reproductive system caused by pregnancy and childbirth will have a certain inhibitory effect on sexual desire. Generally, it takes two months after delivery for all organs to return to normal.

Guidance:

If the couple does not understand this and starts sexual life too early after childbirth, especially when the wife is unwilling, this will cause the wife to dislike sexual life and develop into sexual frigidity. So as a husband, don't be impatient, take your time.

Condition Analysis:

Based on the analysis of the situation you described, it is generally recommended to communicate more. Being tired from taking care of children can also be distracting, so be more understanding.

2. My wife is unwilling to have sex after giving birth

Some husbands report that it is difficult to arouse sexual desire for an obese wife, and that wives often become extremely obese after giving birth. I would like to state here that as long as she undergoes proper management and exercise after giving birth, she can quickly recover to her original state. If you overeat during pregnancy and accumulate a lot of excess fat, it may continue for a long time after delivery. In this case, the husband should learn to wait.

The wait is worth it. After a certain recovery period, the sexual pleasure of most women will be greatly enhanced. On the one hand, this increase in pleasure is due to long-term repression. On the other hand, it is because the wives believe that they have become more mature after giving birth to children, so their sexual actions will become bolder.

If you want to achieve a real orgasm, you should first get rid of the psychological pressure. But the biggest psychological pressure at this time is the baby. Because the baby will wake up in the middle of the night and cry for milk, it is difficult for parents to concentrate on sex. Some couples also report that they are distracted and unable to concentrate even when their baby is sleeping.

I don't think they need to worry about this. Babies can unconsciously feel the love expressions from their parents and will accept them. Besides, it is not an improper relationship, so how can it cause harm to the baby? Even if the baby accidentally opens his eyes and witnesses the "scene", so what? The baby will never have a great passion for sex when he grows up because of this.

Of course, it is best for couples not to wake up the baby during their sexual intercourse. In fact, there are many places where you can avoid the baby's sight! Such as bathroom, sofa, living room, table, dining table, etc., where couples can express their love to each other. If the baby really becomes an obstacle, you can also leave the baby at the mother's home and go out for a trip to commemorate the birth of the child.

If you don't plan to have a second child in the second year, don't forget to take contraceptive measures. Without breastfeeding, you may become pregnant again 1-2 months after giving birth. Even if you breastfeed, ovulation will still occur, only a little later. If you accidentally get pregnant, it will not only put a great burden on the mother's body, but the second baby will also have to grow in the tired uterus.