My wife is frigid after giving birth

Recently, the editor has received feedback from many friends saying that their wives became sexually apathetic after giving birth. In fact, for some mothers, the emergence of sexual frigidity is actually very normal. Because during this period, mothers' bodies have not adjusted and the focus of their lives is on their children, their sexual desire will decline. So, what should you do if your wife becomes sexually apathetic after giving birth?

Will a mother really become sexually apathetic after giving birth?

There is no scientific basis for this statement. A mother will not become sexually apathetic after giving birth. What is the real reason why mothers lose interest in sex?

1) The harm caused by childbirth

Giving birth is quite harmful to women. The mother's body undergoes significant physiological changes after giving birth, especially the reproductive organs, which undergo changes and trauma during pregnancy and childbirth. It takes some time for them to return to normal. The uterus takes about 42 days to return to its normal size after delivery. The endometrium takes about 56 days to heal completely. The vaginal mucosa will not fully return to normal until the ovarian function returns to normal, that is, after menstruation occurs. The couple can have sex only after the mother has fully recovered. If you have sex too early, it will cause vaginitis, cervicitis, endometritis and other diseases. You know how you feel good, but when have you ever thought about these problems? Poor physical recovery is a lifelong problem for women!

2) Overwork and physical fatigue

If you are not a woman, you will never be able to understand the hardship of pregnancy for ten months, nor the pain of childbirth. After becoming a mother, I never had a good night’s sleep because of breastfeeding at night, and I was also busy wiping the baby’s poop and urine during the day. There are also various housework to do, and the excessive workload falls on the mother. Her body is in a state of fatigue all day long. In this state, how can there be any "sexual interest"? But you, do your work as usual during the day and sleep soundly at night. What rights do you have to blame me?

3) Lack of attention from husband

Many mothers have reported that after having children, many husbands become "hands-off bosses" and no longer care about the family. I always feel that I am having a hard time. I work hard every day to earn money for this family. He acts like a boss at home, arrogant and thinks that taking care of children and doing housework are women's jobs. When your wife asks you to help take care of the children, you find it annoyance; when your wife asks you to help with cleaning the house, you turn your face away; when your wife asks you to accompany her shopping, you complain that she is fat. There is sex only when there is love. You treat me like your own mother. How can I have the energy to be intimate with you?

Relevant data show that most mothers do not suffer from sexual frigidity after giving birth. The main reasons are physical overload, limited energy, and too much attention being diverted to children. It would be even worse if the husband is not considerate and understanding enough and cannot help his wife share the burden! Women are more emotional. If they can't appreciate your past warmth, how can they relive the old times with you?

Life is really hard for women. It is not easy to be pregnant for ten months. Without the joy of becoming a mother as a spiritual support, no one can bear such a big belly. You finally make it to the day of delivery, risking your life for the child, hoping that both mother and child are safe, and the child will have your surname. Even so, you don't show much care and love, and you always think about satisfying your own needs. People are all made of flesh and blood. Do you think you are worthy of all she has done for you? You should love your own wife yourself. If there is someone in this world who loves your wife more than you do, it will be too late for you to regret!