What are women most afraid of after cheating? Nothing more than these four things!

Human emotions are the most solid yet the most unreliable contradiction in the world, so in real life, both men and women may have problems with extramarital affairs, especially those who value freedom. So the question is, if a woman cheats, what is she afraid of?

1. Fear of being exposed and having a bad reputation

What do women fear the most after cheating? In our country's traditional concept, a woman's chastity is more important than her life. If she cheats, she will be called a slut and will not be able to hold her head up. Although modern people are no longer so conservative and are becoming more tolerant of women cheating on their husbands, extramarital affairs are still considered unfaithful to husbands. Once a woman's infidelity is exposed, she will be pointed at and criticized by others. Not only will she feel like a thorn in her back, but even her family style and education will be questioned. This is also an important reason why girls would go far away from home to work as prostitutes to support their families, for fear of being known by their hometown people.

Extramarital affairs are like taking opium. Once you get involved, you will become addicted. It is difficult to hide for a long time, and it is only a matter of time before it is exposed. Therefore, women are most afraid of having their infidelity exposed, which would ruin their reputation and make them unable to face the people of Jiangdong again.

2. Fear of forced divorce and loss of financial resources

Men value face, while women value reputation. The consequences of cheating for men and women are very different. Although cheating is an emotional betrayal, men can have other women but they cannot allow their wives to have an affair. There are also differences between men and women in their attitudes towards cheating: men are more likely to be forgiven by their wives after they return home, but it is difficult for women to be forgiven by their husbands after they cheat. A woman's psychological reactions after cheating are complex and she is likely to leave clues, which are not difficult to discover as long as her husband pays attention.

Once a woman is caught cheating, she will face the risk of being kicked out of her home, and there is a high possibility that she will be kicked out with nothing. If a divorced woman has a meager income, her quality of life will inevitably decline, and giving the child to herself will make things even worse. Therefore, what do women fear most after cheating? The most important thing is forced divorce and loss of stable source of income.

3. Fear of lover forcing marriage and messy relationship

Some women do not have a bad relationship with their spouses. They cheat mainly to experience the novelty of excitement and do not want to give up their marriage and family. But humans are emotional animals after all, and men can easily fall in love. There are many cases where women are forced to get married because they are loved by their lovers.

A case exposed online caused a sensation. A 43-year-old woman named Wang from Guizhou was forced to marry a 64-year-old man after having an extramarital affair. Because Wang's husband did not agree to divorce, she hit him with a hammer during the conflict, causing serious injuries. She was sentenced to one and a half years in prison for intentional injury. It is very difficult for a woman to be entangled with her lover. She worries that her cheating behavior will be exposed, and she is also afraid that her lover will keep a close eye on her, which makes her feel like she is stuck in a quagmire and unable to extricate herself. Therefore, after a woman has cheated, she fears most that her lover will force her into marriage and make it difficult to break up.

4. Fear of being dumped and losing both money and life

Men are animals with lower bodies. It is their nature to get tired of the old and love the new. They will not stay committed to one woman for a long time. Men also have misunderstandings about women. They always think that women value reputation and will swallow their anger after being dumped.

Little do people know that no matter what a woman's motives are for cheating, love and sex are always intertwined. She will feel at a disadvantage if she goes to bed with a man and will not be willing to accept the outcome of losing both her money and her man. But women are still the weaker sex after all. What can they do if they meet a ruthless man? They can’t beat him, and scolding him is useless. They can only blame themselves for their bad luck. Therefore, what do women fear the most after cheating? Being dumped because they get tired of playing around! Once her husband finds out and kicks her out of the house, she can only sulk.