Psychological analysis of women's cheating, a must-read for men!

In today's life, not only do many men cheat, but many women also begin to "cross the line". People with more traditional ideas may not understand why some women do such things. Let's analyze the psychology of cheating women.

Lover

This type of woman generally values ​​the relationship between men and women, mostly because she herself has rich and delicate emotions, or there is no emotion between husband and wife or there is a crack in the relationship. They yearn for emotional care and spiritual comfort. This type of cheating does not require strong sexual desire, it is just a part of emotional communication or sublimation.

However, this kind of infidelity is often very involving and tiring because the emotions involved are too deep and there are too many material and spiritual interactions between the two parties. Although both parties may obtain great satisfaction physically and mentally for a period of time, the final result will mostly be hurt.

One night stand

This type of woman has often been unfaithful emotionally or physically in the past, or has been emotionally stimulated, or has received great pleasure physically. They no longer value feelings. What they pursue is only a retaliatory carnal stimulation, or passion and physical enjoyment.

This kind of cheating usually does not involve emotional, material or financial entanglements, and is only for temporary pleasure.

To put it bluntly, both of them have a distorted mentality of "playing" and "being played", "possessing" or "being possessed". This kind of cheating behavior is very cool and easy. They will not have any worries unless they are caught in bed.

Sexual friendship type

This type of women are, relatively speaking, not young anymore. They generally have a stable life, a happy family and even a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. As the couple spend time together, the passion of their youth gradually turns into family affection. Due to work, career, family and other reasons, there is less exchange and communication between each other in terms of thoughts, language and even "sexual interests".

As time goes by and they grow older, they often like to find someone to talk to, but many "heartfelt words" cannot be said or are inconvenient to say between couples or even lovers. So they will want to find a "confidant" who has a similar relationship to them as husband and wife or lovers, but without causing any influence on each other.

This kind of intimate relationship can only be established after a spiritual collision or physical contact. This type of infidelity is usually not mixed with material or too much emotion. It is a friendship, but it is higher than the simple friendship of ordinary friends. The two are independent of each other, do not interfere with each other, and each has his or her own living space.

This kind of women care very much about their own reputation, worry about the impact on their family, and fear that the relationship between husband and wife will be affected. So, be very careful when choosing "sexual friendship".

Hungry

This type of women are usually not young. Most of them are between 35 and 45 years old. When husbands reach this age range, they often feel “unable to do what they want”. When it comes to married life, most people just deal with it. At most, it is limited to regular "payment of public grain". However, when women reach this age range, they are often as fierce as wolves and tigers and unstoppable.

This is because husbands often "hide" intentionally or unintentionally and try every means to avoid "paying their dues", while wives, for the sake of face, are often too embarrassed to ask for it actively. Over time, wives begin to feel like they are “not full”. Therefore, in order to solve the problem of "food and clothing", many wives will turn their eyes to the men outside the "besieged city", and once they have the opportunity, they will go "outside the city" to find "food" to eat.

Curiosity

Due to the rampant materialism in modern society and the change of human nature, cheating has become a "fashion" for many people. After dinner, many women often intentionally spy on or spread other people's "romantic affairs".

At the beginning, they held a "contemptuous" mentality, but as time went on, they seemed to have a feeling of "envying others from afar". When they are alone, they often ask themselves: "If the monk can touch it, why can't I?" (Ah Q's famous saying) So, deep in their hearts, they will have a feeling of "itching to do something".

Once they have the opportunity, they will want to "retreat and weave a network". This type of cheating may seem similar to a "one-night stand", but women of this type are more rational and usually just "try it out" to satisfy their curiosity.

Confused

This type is generally rare, and most of them are "unintentional success". This kind of woman is often deceived or "forced" by the other party without any psychological preparation. This is certainly not the type of rape. Even though I don't have that kind of intention towards the other person, I don't hate or reject him/her in my heart. As long as the environment or "atmosphere" is right, and as long as it is felt that there will be no physical or reputational danger, people will eventually "half-heartedly agree" to it.

Revenge

There is generally no age limit for women with this mentality. A common character trait among them is that they are vengeful and have a rebellious mentality of "if you give me something on the first day, I will give you something on the fifteenth day" no matter who they are.

No matter how old this kind of woman is, no matter how loving the couple was, as long as she knows that her husband is having an affair, she will feel like, "Since you, the governor, set the fire, then I, a common man, must also light a lamp." So they take the initiative to cheat with the mentality of "harming themselves and others", and even worse, they deliberately let their husbands know that they are cheating.

People with this mentality are not pursuing physical satisfaction, but purely psychological satisfaction. Therefore, they are not picky when looking for someone to cheat with, as long as he is a man, they can even accept those "old bachelors" who cannot get married.

This type of cheating psychology is the most terrifying, so I suggest that guys who like to cheat should be "low-key" on their road to cheating, be as secretive as possible, and never let your wife find out, especially if your wife is the kind of woman with a strong sense of revenge.