Why do women become frigid?

Lust is natural and comes naturally. But many women often feel like they are sexually apathetic and have no pleasure. Some women particularly hate having sex with their husbands. Once their husbands make any requests, they will become very irritated. In fact, a woman's indifference to sex is also a sign of sexual dysfunction, but it is not a disease. Most of the time, it is caused by the woman's psychology. Why do women become sexually apathetic? Let's take a look at what exactly caused the problem.

1. A history of sexual trauma in the past or even in childhood (rape, incest, sexual harassment, etc.).

2. During puberty, people are afraid of being known for certain abnormalities in their body shape and develop a sense of inferiority.

3. After a failed relationship or marriage, they think they have been deceived and even develop a revengeful mentality towards men.

4. Worry about the possible pain caused by pregnancy, curettage, sexually transmitted diseases, etc., and thus avoid sexual contact.

5. Pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse makes them afraid of sexual intercourse.

6. The woman only regards sex as a wife's obligation, rather than as her own physiological and psychological need like eating; if this is coupled with a lack of sexual knowledge that results in insufficient sex skills, monotonous sex methods, and even orgasm disorders, sex will become boring.

7. Having too high expectations for the spouse. After marriage, they find that the husband in reality is far from the ideal spouse they had before marriage, but they are unwilling to face and adapt to the reality.

8. The husband lacks sexual attractiveness or has sexual dysfunction.

9. The relationship between the husband and wife is tense or bad, and the wife refuses sexual intercourse as a means of revenge or coercion.

10. The side effects of some acute and serious diseases, chronic diseases and their treatment drugs can reduce sexual interest, or suppress sexual desire due to concerns that sexual activity may aggravate the disease or harm the body.

The above is a brief introduction to why women are sexually frigid. Both husband and wife should have a correct attitude towards sex life and not be afraid of it. If there is no way to change it, the relationship between husband and wife will be very tense. In normal times, we should maintain a good relationship between husband and wife and not put too much burden on each other, which is also an issue that needs to be paid more attention.