How to increase girls' sexual desire

We all know that sex between husband and wife is the most direct way to communicate emotions, but high-quality sex is a matter for both husband and wife. However, many women always have sexual indifference due to gynecological diseases and psychological reasons. This often affects the quality of sex life, and sometimes even causes the other party to lose interest. This has a great impact on the relationship between husband and wife. Let's learn how to improve girls' sexual desire.

How to increase girls' sexual desire

The power of touch

The more nerve endings and blood vessels there are, the stronger the sexual stimulation. The outermost layer of skin on the human body has no sensation; sensation is produced in the second layer of skin. For most people, the genitals, earlobes, lips, breasts, buttocks, and thighs are the most obvious erogenous zones. But many people's erogenous zones include the neck, palms, soles of feet and abdomen, etc.

During sex, the order of touches plays an important role. Generally speaking, you should start with the least sensitive area and gradually move to the most sensitive area. Touching the most sensitive parts at the beginning will only backfire.

Men and women like different types of touch. Women seem to be more sensitive to the strength of the touch. Usually they like to start with gentle caressing and then gradually increase the strength. Many people touch their spouse in a way that they like, but this may not be what their spouse likes. You should first find out the other person's real needs (such as the area and strength of touch) before you can achieve good results.

Eyes of Love

Husbands require more visual stimulation for sexual arousal than do wives. This explains why men like to turn on the lights when making love, while women prefer dim lighting or no light at all.

But women can also become sexually aroused by visual stimulation. Moreover, handsome men can arouse the same visual pleasure for them as beautiful women do for men. But they usually avoid talking about it.

Despite the importance of visual stimulation in sex, many people make the mistake of avoiding using their eyes. They worry about their appearance not being what others think it is. A woman may worry that her breasts are too small or her thighs are too thick; a man may worry that his penis is too small or his body hair is too thick. Our sense of self-inadequacy is so strong that we often find it difficult to believe that others can be sexually aroused by us.

Sexy scent

Everyone has a body odor, which is formed by bacteria on the surface of the skin and is as different from person to person as fingerprints. The reason we feel someone is attractive to us is largely related to their body odor. According to a survey, 71% of men and women believe that body odor is an important "stimulant". About one-third of women think that men with strong body odor are sexier than men with light body odor. More than half of the people think that musky body odor is the sexiest. About a quarter of people prefer spicy body odor.

Women seem to have a more sensitive sense of smell than men. They can smell the slightest odor of sweat from three feet away. During ovulation, their sense of smell is particularly sensitive.

The body's musk-like odor is produced by glands around the pubic area and under the vaginal fossa. In the animal kingdom, scent-emitting compounds called pheromones play a key role in courtship, attracting males to fertile females. But the situation with humans is different. Smelling a little bit of your spouse's body odor is usually not enough to arouse you. But the body odor of your spouse does play an important role in sex that cannot be underestimated. Modern people love cleanliness very much. They always wash their whole body clean and remove all odor, which makes it difficult to make full use of people's natural body fragrance. Of course, bad odor is naturally disgusting. Therefore, the best way is to stay clean and retain body odor.

Taste and Sex

We have about 10,000 taste buds, which are distributed in different parts of the tongue according to different sensory functions: the taste buds at the tip of the tongue sense sweetness, the taste buds on the sides of the tongue sense sourness, and the taste buds at the back of the tongue sense bitterness. Only salty taste can be felt in all parts of the tongue. This is a good thing, because the human body, when completely clean, tastes slightly salty.

Men and women seem to have slightly different taste preferences. Men prefer salty tastes, while women prefer sweet tastes. But during sex, the most important thing is to get rid of any unpleasant taste. Most of us like to have sex with our spouse after he or she has taken a bath. Although sweat is often promoted as a "sexual medium" in movies and advertisements, in reality few people are willing to kiss and lick their spouse and have sex with them after playing tennis or golf.

The above is an introduction to how to improve girls' sexual desire. After understanding it, we know that if we want to improve sexual desire, we must first find out the cause of sexual indifference and then prescribe the right remedy. In addition, couples should try to make the atmosphere more warm during sexual intercourse. In addition, women should try to relax as much as possible in their daily lives and not always have too much psychological pressure.