Postpartum intercourse is too painful to enter

In the third month and the first month of pregnancy, pregnant women need to stop having sex for a long time, and it is inevitable that both husbands and wives will feel a little bored. Generally speaking, you can have sex two months after a normal delivery, but some women may encounter problems during sexual intercourse. So, what is the reason for postpartum sexual intercourse being too painful to have? Let's discuss the following points: What is the reason for postpartum sexual intercourse being too painful to have?

Postpartum sex life is painful

Generally, within two months after giving birth, women generally experience a decrease in sexual desire, which is normal. If the sexual life usually cannot achieve the harmony of husband and wife life, it may also cause female sexual frigidity and affect the relationship between husband and wife in the future.

Causes of dry hair:

1. Lack of sufficient sexual stimulation before sexual intercourse: that is, insufficient foreplay, men are eager to enter, women are not sexually aroused, and the Bartholin's glands do not secrete enough mucus to lubricate the vagina, resulting in dryness;

2. The influence of women's psychological state: such as fear of pain during sexual intercourse, worry about possible pregnancy, wrong view of sex life, lack of adequate preparation for sex life, all of which affect the decrease of secretion;

3. Decreased estrogen metabolism: such as low ovarian function, menopause, lactation, after ovulation, etc.;

4. Influence of drugs: such as taking sedatives, antihypertensive drugs, etc.

In case of vaginal dryness, the couple should stop having sex and let both parties relax. Then, the man can stimulate the woman's clitoris or nipples and guide the woman to have sexual desire. In addition to psychological therapy, medication is also a good method, which has a very good effect on treating vaginal dryness and increasing sexual desire.

Common problems with sex life after childbirth

1. Pay attention to hygiene

Because the disease resistance of new mothers after giving birth is weaker, the wounds of the reproductive system still exist and have not been completely healed. Therefore, when having sex at this time, you must pay attention to maintaining hygiene, especially the male reproductive organs must be kept clean. Before sexual intercourse, wash them with warm water. Women should pay attention to cleaning the genitals after intercourse to prevent infection.

2. Pay attention to gentle posture

Because the new mother has just given birth to a child, her body has not yet recovered, especially the reproductive organs have been traumatized, the vagina is dry, and the vaginal mucosa is also very sensitive. This stipulates that the husband cares more about his wife. During the couple's sexual life, he should act gently, give his wife plenty of touch, and work hard to remove his wife's psychological barriers. Otherwise, if the behavior is too severe, it may cause vaginal laceration and bleeding in the wife.

3. Pay attention to contraceptive measures after giving birth

After the baby is born, many new mothers believe that they will not get pregnant because they do not have their menstrual period, so they do whatever they want without any worries. They can enjoy their married life freely without having to consider contraception. In fact, many new mothers do not use contraceptive methods when they have sex and become pregnant after giving birth, which will cause serious harm to women. Therefore, pregnant women must consider contraceptive measures when having sex after giving birth.