From "Wu Tong Acupuncture" to "Huo Needle Overtime", why are they so confident about being a scumbag?

My friends, have you been like a badger recently, busy jumping up and down in the melon field?

Fresh big melons from Yuquan are packed one after another, each one is ripe and sweet:

From brave love to overtime love, scumbag men have put on the wolf skin of "love" and hurt many girls' hearts.

It’s fun to watch the show, but what’s more important is to learn how to identify and stay away from scumbags.

The reason why most scumbags are scumbags is not only because of their moral degradation, but more importantly, they may have psychological "illnesses":

01

Narcissistic Personality Disorder

"I'm rich and the coolest in the world." "It's their honor to be liked by me." "They are all rubbish."...

Scumbags think they are the "chosen ones" who have never been seen before and will never be seen again. They only care about their own interests and lack empathy. They feel justified even when they cheat. Once they are exposed by the other party, they will be furious. In any case, it is difficult for them to realize the harm caused by their behavior to others.

What drives them to do such scumbag behavior is that they feel that they should be like this, after all, they are popular.

02

Low self-esteem (lack of security)

Although these scumbags are narcissistic, they are actually surprisingly insecure.

They cannot feel their true self-worth, so they want to rely on "cheating" to gain recognition and affirmation from others in order to prove their attractiveness.

The more they lack something, the more they care about it. For example, people with toothpicks love to emphasize how big they are; for example, if they are incompetent, they will laugh at others for being useless.

Such men also have a deep identification with the "masculinity" constructed in popular culture, and believe that "girls should be clean" and "women should look like women."

03

Girls who have been deceived by the morbid desire to conquer should have had this experience: once they accept the pursuit of the scumbag, their enthusiasm will quickly fade and they will be like two different people.

Because, to them, you have completely lost your challenge and value. At this time, the scumbags will target other "difficult" girls and start to experience the pleasure of conquest again.

The behavior of these scumbags is certainly sad. But the harm behind their frequent changes of sexual partners and some high-risk sexual behaviors in pursuit of excitement is even greater:

01

STDs, pregnancy

Sexual activity without condoms and in groups not only puts girls at risk of unwanted pregnancy, but also may expose them to sexually transmitted diseases such as gonorrhea, genital warts, genital herpes, gonorrhea, and even AIDS.

Therefore, don’t put yourself in danger just because a scumbag says, “If you love me, don’t wear a condom.”

02

Sudden death during sexual intercourse

Don’t think it’s ridiculous, “three times a night”, “seven times a night”… scumbag men often suffer from physical exhaustion due to frequent excessive exercise.

If you choose to exercise forcedly after taking medicine, for men with cardiovascular disease, it is very likely to cause an acute attack of cardiovascular disease and cause sudden death.

03

Damage to the brain

Sex stimulates the brain and produces pleasurable dopamine.

However, excessive addiction will reduce the connection between the striatum and the prefrontal cortex in the brain, and these connections can play the role of "judging whether the behavior is correct" and "restraining incorrect behavior."

This also makes the scumbag less likely to question his own wrong behavior, and even engage in compulsive behavior.

In severe cases, it may develop into sex addiction. In 2013, researchers at the University of Cambridge found that the areas of the brain responsible for processing rewards, stimulation and pleasure in people addicted to watching pornographic pictures are exactly the same as the highly stimulated areas in the brains of drug and alcohol addicts.

In other words, people with sex addiction, like drug addicts, will have an uncontrollable desire for sex.

04

Causes depression

In addition, those girls who have been cheated are even more traumatized. Many girls suffer from varying degrees of depression because of scumbags, and some even commit self-harm or suicide. Therefore, girls must keep their eyes open and don't look for boyfriends in the garbage dump.

In life, we can also summarize some small methods to identify scumbags from their common behaviors~

Want the relationship to progress quickly. When the relationship is just confirmed and before both parties have a deep understanding of each other, the scumbag will insist that you are the one he wants to spend his life with and that he can give you everything, or he will show strong love and desire for you and hope to have sex with you.

But when you want to take him to meet your parents and relatives, the scumbag will keep delaying and always say that he is not ready.

They are good at sweet talk but avoid sincere and deep communication. "You are special" and "You are the first person who makes me..." are their classic lines, but when you want to get to know them better, they either interrupt or refuse to communicate.

Often brag about their experiences. Bad guys will talk about their love history without hesitation and take pride in it.

Enthusiasm fades very quickly. After confirming the relationship, the scumbag's enthusiasm for you quickly cools down, and WeChat chats also change from "Baby misses you" and "Love you" to "Oh" and "Busy"...

When you try to communicate with him, he will blame you instead: "I am cold to you now because you were cold to me back then!"

At this time, they have already shifted their target. No matter how hard you try, they will remain indifferent or even use cold violence to make you disappear.

Girls, if the guy who is pursuing you or just became your boyfriend has these traits, I dare not say it is 100% certain, but he is most likely a "scumbag".

At this time, you must decisively stay away from the scumbag, stop the loss in time, and make yourself the woman he can never get!