Why do people blame the heroine in "The Next Stop is Happiness"? Analysis of the character of the heroine He Fanxing in "The Next Stop is Happiness"

The drama "The Next Stop Is Happiness" has been hotly debated since it was aired, especially the character of the heroine He Fanxing played by Victoria Song, who was criticized by netizens for a bit of a breakdown, with general terms such as scumbag, green tea bitch, two-timing, etc. But in fact, if everyone starts from the mindset of a 30-year-old woman, perhaps they will be more tolerant of her. Next, let's take a look at why everyone is scolding the heroine, and the analysis of the heroine He Fanxing's character.

Why do people blame the heroine in "The Next Stop is Happiness"

① As a middle-aged woman with the mentality of a senior girl, she has never been in a relationship but easily spends the night with a male colleague in the company; even if she doesn't care, it is irresponsible for her behavior.

② She accepted the confidentiality agreement proposed by the male second without careful consideration and disregarded her boyfriend’s feelings. She also had no core ideas of her own and was ready to compromise and give in when the male protagonist got angry;

③The breakup was hasty, there was no communication between the two people about the problems. The female protagonist was a typical example of someone who kept things in her heart and did not communicate, only making conclusions based on personal guesses, and finally the breakup was unclear.

④ From a moral perspective, it is difficult for most people to accept a seamless relationship. Not to mention the second male lead who once poached the girl. If they really loved each other, there would be a window period even if it was to show respect for the ex.

⑤ She is irresponsible to the second male lead. Although she accepts the second male lead, she still likes the male lead in her heart. To put it bluntly, she uses the second male lead as a transition of emotions and a diversion from heartbreak. Even if you think the two of you are suitable and have the possibility of development, now is definitely not your best state. Please be serious and attentive when dating.

⑥ Impulsive and reckless, the male lead has not left the company yet, and is determined to chase the female lead back. At this time, the female lead agreed to the male second. She did not consider the harm caused to the male lead by the reactions of the people around her. Even if they were a friend, they would not rub salt into the wound.

Is He Fanxing a scumbag?

Because she is a scumbag, clearly and transparently.

When dealing with the first male lead, she says she loves him, but she is more honest with the second male lead than with her real boyfriend. She is even more honest than her friends who already know that she is in love. If her friends hadn't seen and reminded her by chance, she would have continued to maintain an ambiguous relationship with the second male lead. When dealing with the second male lead, she also thinks about the first male lead when she is with him, and she is two-minded.

The situation has developed to episode 31. I personally think the most outrageous thing is that she saw the true face of the male second the night before and said that she was deceived. Then she turned around and cried loudly on the passenger seat of the male second about her lost first love. Within a week, she confirmed her relationship with the male second. To put it bluntly, the male second deceived her, but she didn't care. Is this equivalent to indirectly admitting that she was with the male first and had a crazy ambiguous relationship with the male second? What else is there to say...

Analysis of the character of He Fanxing, the heroine of "The Next Stop is Happiness"

I checked Weibo and saw many people scolding the female lead for her character's collapse, bitch, and the plot and the screenwriter. I felt bad. Just to say, if I didn't miss it, the male lead has not explained his American sister to the female lead, nor has he discussed his study abroad with her. He said, "How can I go abroad if you are here?" He put all the responsibilities on the female lead. How could the female lead hinder the future of the person she likes? Of course, she broke up with the male lead and let him go.

The heroine is already 32 years old, and she needs to consider many practical issues. She is still worried about her future parents at an old age, the enthusiastic but nagging and annoying neighbor aunt who has no sense of b, the secular perspective... I know many people will say why bother with those things, it's not like you are living with your neighbors, it's a shame to save face. But in reality, how many people can reach this point? The heroine can't just ignore it, because her parents still have to interact with these neighbors in this community, so she can't stand the pressure and compromise. She gave up her fantasy of love since she was a child, and began to follow her parents' wishes to contact men like the second male lead who are "suitable" in all aspects including age. Is this considered a collapse of her character?

I saw the helplessness and sadness of modern older women.

They also have to endure the abuse and ridicule from their own sex.

Everyone should know what she is facing:

1. Her aging parents, who are concerned about her future, secretly force her to find a partner.

2. Rumors and worldly views represented by the neighbor aunt.

3. Let her try it out with the second male lead’s best friend.

4. The second male lead’s relentless pursuit.

5. The male protagonist’s future and his own age.

It was her first time to fall in love, she had no experience, and she didn't know how to deal with any love issues.

It may take her some time to realize that she is not in love with the second male lead at all. She should end this "trial" and then have another opportunity to be braver and solve the problem between her and the male lead.

I have said a lot of nonsense but I don't know if it makes any sense. I will check it out tomorrow and make some corrections if there are any problems. Good night everyone. I hope everyone can watch the drama rationally. After all, the drama is fake. It is not worth it to make yourself angry.