How to end an extramarital affair decently Why is it so difficult to end an extramarital affair decently

We all know that extramarital affairs are a common marriage problem. Many couples tend to have extramarital affairs after being married for a long time. Either the husband cheats or the wife cheats, and both parties have big problems in their relationship. Extramarital affairs are generally immoral, and once discovered, they will be despised by everyone. So how can an extramarital affair end decently?

How to end an extramarital affair gracefully

1. Break up early

Many people who indulge in extramarital affairs know that this relationship is not legitimate, but they can't bear to part with the other party, so they keep on having affairs. The first step to a decent end to an extramarital affair is to end it early.

2. Don’t get entangled

The most important thing to end an extramarital affair is to stop getting entangled. Once one party gets entangled, it will be difficult to end the relationship completely.

In the TV series "Dwelling Narrowness", Song Siming and Hai Zao broke up and got back together many times. After Xiao Bei knew about their relationship, Hai Zao once made up her mind to break up with Song Siming, but during their "breakup", Song Siming kept sending messages to Hai Zao, so that the two finally "reunited".

3. Let the other person know that you are happier after the breakup

After breaking up, can you stop pestering your partner and end the affair? Not necessarily. If you want to end the affair in a dignified way, the most important thing is to let your partner know that you are happier without him/her.

Why is it so difficult to end an extramarital affair gracefully?

An extramarital affair is not just a matter between two people, but between three people, or even two families. Let's imagine that the two people who are having an extramarital affair feel bored and don't want to continue to be secretive.

If at this time, except the two of you, no third person knows about your extramarital affair, and the two of you agree to no longer contact or communicate with each other, then it can be considered a decent ending. After all, this affair has not been known to others and does not need to be subject to moral judgment.

Extramarital affairs are usually difficult to end because one person doesn't want to play anymore, but the other person doesn't want to. At this time, it is easy to break up.

Once two people fall out, this illicit affair will be known to everyone.

To sum up, if you want to have a decent ending in an extramarital affair, you can only maintain superficial decency by admitting your mistakes, correcting them, and getting back on track in time to avoid being exposed.

How to deal with extramarital affairs

1. Men’s extramarital affairs

Men's extramarital affairs have existed since ancient times. It's just that in recent years, with the change of people's concepts and the improvement of living standards, extramarital affairs are more common than before. Men's extramarital affairs are often forgiven by women after they say a few words to women and admit their mistakes. Women consider that they want to have a complete family and give their children a complete family, so they tolerate and tolerate it.

2. Women’s extramarital affairs

Once a woman's affair is discovered or caught, men often cannot tolerate it. They feel that the woman is "cuckolding" them and that they cannot hold their heads up high. They either beat or scold them, which is very unfair to women.

3. How to deal with extramarital affairs

(1) Deal with it rationally.

Keep a clear head, face it rationally, and deal with it rationally.

(2) Do not beat or embarrass yourself.

Some people beat them up on the spot, while others made a fool of themselves. These practices are not advisable.