The closer your relatives are, the more they hate you. What's the psychology behind this? If your relatives gossip about you, should you fight back?

Relatives are supposed to be the closest people by blood relationship, but in real life, relatives are often very strange. If you are not doing well, they will be happy to make fun of you, but if you are doing well, they will gossip about you everywhere. They are obviously relatives, but they feel strange and cold-blooded. In fact, in the face of this situation, just live your own life well!

What's the mentality of the relatives who hate you the most?

There is a saying: relatives hope for poverty, friends hope for wealth. There is also a saying, "I feel relieved when I see that you are not doing well."

This really describes the mentality of most people very well.

When I finally achieved certain results after hard work, I wanted to share the joy and happiness with my family and friends. However, some people genuinely celebrated for me and were proud of me, some pretended to congratulate me and then looked unhappy; and some people directly made sarcastic remarks, saying that there was no point in being happy since I didn't have much money in my pocket.

Should you fight back when your relatives gossip about you?

When we are young, we are beautiful, so others think we are romantic, and then they spread all kinds of rumors, such as saying we are in love with someone. After we start working, we are capable, so others think we rely on nepotism, so if we want to live a good life, we have to withstand all kinds of doubts, slander and suspicion!

We should not confront him, we just need to face him with a smile. No one's life is smooth sailing, so why bother to confront him! There are many people who speculate about us, can we respond to them one by one? Besides, admitting defeat is not a disadvantage, it can be regarded as a law to motivate us to make progress.

What to do when relatives gossip

If you meet such a relative in the future, you don't have to pay attention to him. In fact, only you know whether your life is good or bad. Live your own life well and take good care of your parents and children. Then you have done well. There is no need to pay attention to other people's gossip.

There are too many things that we have no way to choose or decide. It is good enough to live our own lives well. There is no use thinking too much.

Since others are always jealous, we might as well be low-key. It’s enough for us to know the ups and downs of life ourselves.