What should I say to my child before the high school entrance exam? Reasons for the decline in grades before the high school entrance exam

Nowadays, people pay more and more attention to the education of their children. Education is the foundation of a century-long plan. Parents should teach their children to stick to principles, do things in their own way, and not compare with others. It is not easy not to follow the crowd. This is a manifestation of a person's maturity and courage, and also a manifestation of having a strong opinion and brains. At the same time, you can tell your children that there is still a long way to go in life, just let it go and don't worry too much. So what should we say to our children before the high school entrance examination? Let's take a look!

Contents of this article

1. How to tell your child before the high school entrance examination

2. Reasons for the decline in grades before the high school entrance examination

3. Review methods for the high school entrance examination

What to say to your child before the high school entrance exam

(1) Listen carefully to your child’s voice.

If you want to help your child overcome stress, you must first understand what kind of psychological stress your child has and where it comes from. Therefore, you must listen to your child's confession, take time to talk to your child face to face, look at your child attentively, and listen to him/her seriously. Only when parents are willing to give their hearts to their children, will the children be willing to give their hearts to their parents. In this way, you can understand the true situation of your child's psychological stress and help them with the problem.

2. Help children face their fears.

When children are playing, they will worry whether other children are studying. When they see other children handing in their papers early, they will be nervous and flustered. They will worry about the consequences of not doing well in the exam, etc. At this time, parents should teach their children to stick to principles, do things in their own way, and not compare with others. It is not easy not to follow the crowd. This is a manifestation of a person's maturity and courage, and also a manifestation of having a strong opinion and brains. At the same time, you can tell your children that life is still a long way to go, just let it go and don't worry too much.

(3) Share your experiences with your children.

Parents must have encountered similar situations as their children when they were young. How did they deal with it at that time or how do they deal with the problems they are facing now? These can be shared with children in language that children can understand. When children know that their parents often face pressure and troubles, they are more likely to listen to what their parents say. When parents tell their children how they deal with pressure, they are actually setting a good example for their children, which will also enhance their courage and confidence to overcome pressure.

(4) Build children’s self-confidence.

First of all, parents should believe in their children. Don’t ask them “Can you pass the exam? Can you do it?” If their own parents don’t believe in them, who else will? Every time they take an exam or do exercises, you can praise and encourage their progress, and then analyze where they went wrong and how to improve. Of course, children’s self-confidence is not only about learning. Children’s talents and qualities in other aspects should also be affirmed. Only when children have self-recognition can they perform well in all aspects.

(V) Create a relaxed atmosphere.

Before the exam, don't keep repeating slogans and encouragements to create a sense of pressure on your child. Children prefer parents to say, "Stop reading and go play!" Take care of their daily life and diet, take your child out to play during holidays, and everything else should be fine. There is no need to deliberately change things for your child's exam.

Reasons for the decline in grades before the high school entrance examination

First of all, you need to find out the reason for yourself. Have you been lax in your studies? Have you done anything serious in your spare time every day, or are you just going to the playground to play whenever you have free time like you did in the first and second year of junior high school?

1. Are you not paying attention in class, or are you doing the questions by yourself while the teacher is talking nonsense? This method is only suitable for those who have taken make-up classes. You still have to follow the teacher's ideas in class!

2. The most important thing is not to relax at home on weekends. You have three days at home on weekends, and you need to plan what to do every day. It is best to finish all the homework on Friday night, and review on Saturday, memorizing words and ancient poems; as for Sunday, the morning is mainly for reading and consolidating the memorized knowledge. In the afternoon, you usually have to relax yourself, have physical examinations, and you can jump rope in the afternoon.

3. Don’t touch mobile phones or computers in the third year of junior high school. It’s really like Xuanmai, you really can’t stop.

4. When studying at school, if you don’t understand a question, never compromise and solve it immediately by asking your teacher or classmates.

5. Seize every moment. I didn’t sleep during the lunch break in the second semester of the third year of junior high school. I always did my homework in the office.

6. Don’t give up on yourself. If you do poorly on the exam, talk to your teacher. It would be best if you can be the class representative for a certain subject. This way you can be closer to the teacher.

High School Entrance Examination Review Methods

Pay attention to constantly consolidating and strengthening basic knowledge. The focus of the high school entrance examination is still book knowledge. As long as you have a thorough understanding of the contents of the book and master them comprehensively, you will be able to deal with more than 90% of the test questions. In the process of reviewing, you need to memorize the basic common sense, concepts, professional terms, etc. of various subjects to continuously consolidate the foundation.

Take notes frequently and summarize knowledge more often. The knowledge points in textbooks are listed in chapters and units. Summarize the basic concepts, the connections and differences between knowledge points, the key points and difficulties of each subject and chapter, which can help us master subject knowledge.

Summarize wrong questions in time and form a collection of wrong questions. Every wrong question in the exam is a concrete reward for knowledge gaps. If you don’t summarize the wrong questions in time, you will make the same mistakes again. Only by correcting mistakes in time and using correct thinking to solve problems can you effectively improve your grades.

Study more examples and do more exercises. In general, the questions in textbooks and teachers are often representative. Studying examples and doing the questions in reference books under the guidance of teachers can help us analyze the ideas of solving problems in learning, find deficiencies, and achieve a qualitative leap in knowledge reserves. Analyze more past exam questions. The questions in the high school entrance examination will reflect the way and logic of the test papers. Doing more questions will help you better grasp the knowledge points, improve your confidence in taking the test, and greatly improve your problem-solving ability.

Good and standard writing. Standard writing will affect the marking of the examiner to a certain extent. Neat papers and neat handwriting can help the examiner to review and avoid unnecessary deductions.