The first time I was afraid of pain, I drank to boost my courage

Most people have a certain fear when having sex for the first time, so the first time in everyone's impression has the psychological burden of pain. In fact, people who have had sexual experience know that the first time is not so exaggerated and there will be no excruciating pain, but there will be mild pain. During the first sexual intercourse, women usually experience pain and bleeding due to the rupture of the hymen. This is normal, and some girls even drink alcohol to build up their courage for the first time because they are afraid of pain.

Normal pain symptoms are generally tolerable. Alcohol consumption is not recommended. It is recommended to prepare thoroughly before having sex, such as kissing and caressing. When the vagina is moistened, it will not be too painful to enter. Be careful not to be rough in the first posture.

Why does it hurt when a woman has sex for the first time?

Generally speaking, with the tearing of the hymen, it is the first factor of pain. In fact, the most important thing is that the first time a woman has sex, she has not experienced any caressing or other processes, which causes insufficient love fluid in the vagina and makes it very dry. It will be very painful if the male penis is inserted directly. Vaginal dryness often causes immediate pain during intercourse. To put it simply, vaginal dryness means insufficient lubrication or no lubrication. This situation may occur when there is no sexual arousal or insufficient stimulation.

At the same time, mental anxiety can also cause insufficient metabolism. As it happens, these are all common problems that arise when making love for the first time. Later, the hymen breaks and becomes a friction barrier. The problem was therefore unexpected. Secondly, vaginal anxiety is also a serious problem. It may be severe enough to cause uterine cramping. Uterine cramps can already make sexual intercourse impossible. If we think about an injection, when we are forced to undergo a painful insertion, it itself exacerbates the pain. Therefore, the escalation of pain intensifies the pain.

The essence of first love is that you need to go through pain to achieve happiness. Therefore, this kind of rendering is appealing to both men and women. However, this kind of figurative myth is accepted as objective fact. Later, when women make love for the first time, they will naturally have an anxious and uneasy mentality of "fear of pain". What's more, the first sexual experience itself is extremely stressful.

How to relieve pain

1. The male genitals should enter the vagina at least 30 minutes after foreplay. Sufficient foreplay can allow women to fully orgasm, and if women are happy before penetration, this kind of pain can be completely ignored. Therefore, sufficient foreplay and sufficient teasing before penetration can greatly reduce this kind of pain. In addition, sufficient foreplay can make the vagina secrete love fluid, which is of great help to the lubrication of the vagina and smooth penetration.

2. For the first test, the man should be on top and the woman on the bottom. The traditional man-on-top and woman-on-bottom position can greatly reduce the pain of the first sexual intercourse. Not only can the man-on-top and woman-on-bottom position be better at exerting strength, but also the man can quickly choose the right position. This man-on-top and woman-on-bottom position is less difficult to operate for the first sexual intercourse, so it can also greatly reduce this kind of pain.

3. Adjust the speed. When injecting, we hope that the nurse will increase the speed so that it will not feel pain. The first time you make love, you should start with a cautious approach. After the man's penis is erect, try to insert it slowly. When the woman does not have a strong reaction, slowly increase the force. Do not push all the way in all the way as this will increase the pain.