How long does it hurt for the first time to have sex?

Women are prone to pain in their private parts during their first sexual contact. This is because there is a hymen in women's private parts, which can protect women's private parts and block external bacterial infections. After sexual contact, the male's penis destroys the hymen, which can easily cause pain. This pain will gradually heal.

How many days does it take for the first sexual encounter to be painful?

The role of the hymen in women

The hymen is a natural physiological barrier of the vagina and can play a certain role in protecting the vaginal environment of young girls. However, this protective effect is not important because rupture does not increase the risk of vaginal infection. Therefore, the hymen is actually just a remnant of the genetic evolution process. Many people are born with very shallow hymen traces. As the body grows and develops, this membrane is slowly stretched and many holes appear. Some holes fuse together to form large holes that allow menstrual blood to pass through. When the holes are very large, the hymen can basically no longer be seen.

Why does it hurt for women the first time?

Finally, let me explain why most women say "it hurts the first time." In a natural state, the front and back walls of the vagina fit well together. When a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa is stimulated as never before.

Our brain must recognize this new sense of touch. If we recognize this new feeling as touch, a feeling of being stretched out, or a feeling of fullness, we will not have an emotional reaction of fear. If we have a preconception in our minds that the first night must be painful, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as pain, making us fearful and afraid, because everyone is afraid of pain. If we have positive expectations for sex, then we will recognize this feeling as a strong sexual stimulation and sexual sensation, which will make us sexually excited. This is something that can be explained with common knowledge of psychology; it is not mysterious.

Don't insert too deep, you can try using some lubricant. If you still cannot complete sexual intercourse, you should go to the gynecology department for relevant examinations.