Why doesn't a woman bleed the first time?

Many women do not bleed during their first intercourse, which can be very troubling. In fact, not every female friend will bleed during their first intercourse, so don’t be too anxious or have a heavy psychological burden. In addition, you must take protective measures during your first intercourse to avoid unwanted pregnancy and take good care of your body.

Not every virgin experiences bleeding or pain during first intercourse for several reasons:

The characteristics of the hymen vary from person to person. It can be thin, thick, loose, tight, large or small, and its shape is also different. Some ruptures with little or no bleeding, while others rupture due to strenuous exercise, cycling, falls, trauma, menstrual tampon placement, masturbation, etc.

It is not very noticeable at birth, so it is easy to penetrate without bleeding;

The hymen has retracted on its own at an older age;

Some hymens are very stretchable and remain intact even after multiple sexual intercourses.

On your wedding night, you and your husband should wash your vulva with warm water and mild soap. Because of purchasing items for the wedding and entertaining relatives and friends, the newlyweds are busy and tired, and the smegma of men and vaginal secretions of women increase. If they are not cleaned, it is very unhygienic and will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.

2. Take contraceptive measures

If a man and a woman do not want to have a child right away and do not take birth control pills, both husband and wife will have concerns, and the woman will be more afraid of getting pregnant. Therefore, her mind cannot be highly concentrated and her sex life will be affected. If the woman takes birth control pills in time, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, concentrate their energy, and sexual life will achieve satisfactory results.

3. Close cooperation and mutual consideration

When starting sexual life, both parties will feel shy, especially the woman, whose psychological state is more complicated and she is a little nervous. You should ask your husband to be gentle, and if it doesn't work the first time, try a few more times. The woman should also actively cooperate, overcome tension and fear, and relax her mind. She will be sexually aroused quickly, and her vagina will secrete more arousal fluid, which will have a good lubrication effect. This can reduce pain during sexual intercourse and alleviate the pain caused by abrasions of the hymen.

4. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen

After the hymen ruptures, there will be some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding. You should wipe it with a sterilized gauze or cotton wool. It is best to have sexual intercourse 2-3 days later to prevent the wound from becoming infected. If the hymen ruptures and there is heavy bleeding, the tear is deep, and the pain is unbearable, you should see a doctor.

5. Treat premature ejaculation correctly

During first sexual intercourse, the man may experience premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual failure. You should forgive this situation. It is not premature ejaculation. With the increase of sexual knowledge and accumulation of sexual experience after marriage, both parties will cooperate tacitly and will soon return to normal. Men have a refractory period after ejaculation. After the refractory period, you can try sexual intercourse again, which is often successful.