Does it hurt for a woman's first time?

For women, due to different physical constitutions, some women feel particularly painful during their first sexual intercourse. For some women, the pain is not particularly obvious during their first sexual intercourse. Of course, this is also related to some of the boys' behaviors. If the man has relatively sufficient sexual experience and is gentle in his movements, this will also alleviate the pain of the woman's first time. For women, they must learn to protect themselves during sex.

Generally speaking, it will be very painful for a girl to have sex for the first time, because if the hymen is not broken, it will be broken for the first time. In addition, the vagina is tighter during the first time, and the penis will impact the vaginal wall when inserted, causing pain. However, the degree of pain varies, some are very severe, so painful that you can't walk, and some are mild.

If you don't want to have children, I suggest you use a condom the first time you have sex. In fact, there are two advantages to wearing a condom.

First, it can prevent pregnancy and reduce the harm caused to female friends by taking birth control pills.

Second, it can prevent the spread of sexually transmitted diseases or certain infectious diseases.

How can women protect themselves during sex?

In the early stages of a sexual relationship, if you are the first to suggest using a condom, or if you take out a condom, the other person may wonder if you "do this often" and think you are being "professional." However, when establishing a sexual relationship, you have to pay attention to your own life and health: Will he pass on AIDS or herpes to you? If you don't care about yourself, who will? Who can care about your future more than you?

Taking birth control pills is an effective means of contraception. However, if this is your only form of birth control, you may still be at risk for certain unexpected risks, such as STDs.

It is recommended that you use a condom. While it can prevent pregnancy, it can also effectively resist the invasion of some sexually transmitted diseases.

Currently, the number of women infected with HIV is increasing dramatically. For example, in 1994, 51,235 women in the United States were infected with HIV. Experts believe that condoms are the only physical barrier to protect men and women from the threat of HIV during sexual intercourse.

Of course, it is a bit "incongruous" to interrupt the "foreplay" when passion is surging and pick up a rubber product in a plastic package. You may say that using condoms is troublesome and the man will not cooperate. But have you ever thought that being infected with HIV is more troublesome?

In sexual relationships, the expectations of men and women do not completely overlap. These expectations are actually shaped by social culture. The use of condoms also reflects different behavioral patterns. For example, when you suggest using a condom, the man may object. He would say it wasn't comfortable enough and so on. Sometimes you will accommodate him because you are afraid of losing him or there are some interests involved.

Women look at "sex" mainly from the perspective of emotion and relationship; while men basically look at it from the physical perspective, focus on instant satisfaction, are willing to take risks and attack, and are unwilling to be influenced by others. That's the difference between the sexes.