What to do if your girlfriend doesn't want children

What to do if your girlfriend doesn't want children

The first thing many people do after getting married is to hope to have a baby of their own. This can make the marriage more stable and show the love of both parties. With the fruit of love, our life seems to be complete. However, with the opening up of social ideas, some girls no longer want to have children as soon as possible, because children may distract them from their work. So what do you do if your girlfriend doesn't want kids?

1. Make a promise to the other party. First of all, boys can give their own promise to girls. There is no need for too many fancy words. It is best to be sincere from the heart. This will make girls feel safe and they will not be afraid of pregnancy and the process of childbirth.

2. Convince the other party. In daily life, you can mention things about children from time to time. If the woman is more sensitive or reacts strongly, don't say too much at one time. Repeat it more frequently and say less at a time. In this way, over time, when you talk about these things again, she should not have such a strong reaction.

3. Count the various advantages of having children. You can tell the other person the various advantages of having children. You can also regularly show the other person some TV programs about children, etc. Over time, the other person may think that children are cute and want to have children.

4. Take the girl to places where there are many children often, so that she can feel the cuteness and liveliness of children. Girls like to go to amusement parks, for example, because there are more children there and they are more lively. If you have time, you can go there often.

5. Show your love for children. In life, we ourselves should show our love for children. In this way, the woman may be touched when she sees that we like children. If we ourselves don’t like children, then it’s perfect that neither of us needs to have children, so we must show that we like children.

6. Treat her well and infect her with love. In life, treat the woman well. Don’t always find some trivial things as excuses to quarrel. Slowly infect the other person with love. Believe that one day, the other person will change because of our love.

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