Girl's first sexual experience

A girl who has never had sex is called a virgin. For such girls, they must understand some precautions when having sex for the first time. Because of the lack of sexual experience, having sex hastily at this time can easily have a certain impact on physical and mental health. First of all, try to avoid this kind of premarital sex, and it is best to have sex after marriage. Of course, things are not something that can be controlled by humans. If you have sex before marriage, you must take reasonable contraceptive methods to prevent some sexually transmitted diseases.

1. What diseases make it temporarily or permanently unsuitable for pregnancy?

Every newlywed couple hopes to have a healthy and intelligent child. To achieve this goal, brides suffering from the following diseases should not get pregnant for the time being. Such as heart disease, hepatitis, nephritis, tuberculosis, diabetes, hyperthyroidism, asthma, epilepsy and other diseases. In addition, if the woman suffers from benign tumors in the abdomen, pelvis, breast, thyroid and other parts of the body, surgery or treatment should be performed before pregnancy to avoid aggravation of the disease during pregnancy and making it difficult to deal with. If one or both spouses is suffering from dementia or mental illness, they should not get pregnant for the rest of their lives.

In addition, people with severe heart disease, poor heart function or heart failure should not get pregnant for life to avoid aggravating their condition after pregnancy and putting their lives in danger. Therefore, people suffering from such diseases should take sterilization measures after marriage.

If newlyweds do not want to have children too early, they can use contraception. It is best to use condoms and contraceptive cream, which can not only ensure the contraceptive effect but also increase the lubrication of the vagina. Condoms have no side effects and are the most hygienic. If used properly, they will not only not affect the pleasure of sexual life, but also prevent some infectious diseases between couples. They are safe and reliable for both couples and future children. If there are no other discomforts, you can continue to use this method of contraception. After 2-3 months of marriage, when the woman's vagina becomes looser, you can also use a vaginal diaphragm plus contraceptive cream.

3. Will contraception affect sex life?

Newlyweds who are planning to take contraceptive measures often think about whether contraception will affect their sex life.

A normal reaction? In fact, a large number of scientific experiments have proved that various contraceptive measures, such as male condoms, female vaginal diaphragms, oral contraceptives and IUDs, have no adverse effects on the human body, sexual function and sexual life, and "provide freedom and psychological liberation for sexual life." The so-called "sexual discomfort" that some people experience is not caused by the measures themselves, but is the result of psychological illusions, misunderstandings and even distortions caused by long-term social influences.

It is a common phenomenon that semen leaks out of the vagina after sexual intercourse. In fact, although each ejaculation can discharge about 2-5 ml of semen, which contains hundreds of millions of sperms, only a very small number of sperms can finally pass through the cervix and uterine cavity to reach the fallopian tubes to wait for fertilization, generally only 15-50, and no more than 200.

Among them, only the sperm that arrives first and has good quality will be selected by the egg and combine with it to complete the mission of continuing life. Most of the remaining sperm are rejected from the uterus and discharged from the vagina along with the semen. In order to prevent semen from flowing out and increase the chance of conception, the woman's buttocks can be raised during sexual intercourse, and she should lie on her back for two hours after intercourse to ensure that the semen submerges the cervix and reduces its outflow. As for the excess semen being discharged from the vagina after sexual intercourse, it is a natural phenomenon and generally has no effect on conception.