What are the symptoms of premarital anxiety?

Chinese people have more traditional ideas and concepts. Most people take marriage very seriously and are particularly afraid of divorce. Therefore, before getting married, most people will have more or less anxiety. This is actually a normal phenomenon. However, if the anxiety is excessive or even leads to fear of marriage, pre-marital anxiety disorder may occur. People with pre-marital anxiety disorder will also have the following symptoms.

Symptoms of premarital anxiety:

1. Fear

The last stage before marriage is perhaps the most worthwhile period to write about. It is more delicate and complex than the moment of the wedding, with too many longings for the unknown and too much relief from the past. However, tension, anxiety, and fear often plague the newlyweds at this time. Those with poor psychological quality often have the idea of ​​escaping the marriage after experiencing certain adverse physical reactions. Psychological experts say that this fear reaction among newlyweds is actually a symptom of pre-marital anxiety.

2. Rebellious psychology

Rebellious psychology is also one of the symptoms of pre-marital anxiety. Marriage is an agreement between husband and wife, and it also has constraints. Usually, men desire a stable marriage life, but they are also worried about this constraint. Compared with women, men desire freedom more in their hearts. Although he does not have to do anything specific, when this freedom is threatened, the rebellious psychology will come into play. This is also one of the potential psychological factors that led Mr. Z to think of looking for other women before marriage.

3. Comparative psychology

When Mr. Z communicated with his same-sex friends, he found that he had very little sexual experience. Although his sense of morality supported his behavior, the comparison and joking ridicule among male friends were also impacting Mr. Z's psychological defenses. Therefore, the persuasion of friends began to take effect under this psychological background, making him start to think about finding a woman before marriage.

Anxiety is an unpleasant, painful emotional state accompanied by physical discomfort. Psychiatrist Zhang Jing pointed out that anxiety disorder is a group of emotional disorders with anxiety symptoms as the main clinical manifestation, which often includes three groups of symptoms:

1. Physical symptoms: When patients are nervous, they often have symptoms of autonomic hyperfunction, such as palpitations, shortness of breath, dry mouth, sweating, trembling, flushed face, etc. Sometimes they may feel like they are dying, and feel extremely uncomfortable and think they are about to die. In severe cases, they may even feel out of control.

2. Emotional symptoms: The patient feels that he is in a state of nervousness, anxiety, fear, fear and anxiety. What are you nervous and afraid of? Some people may be able to clearly state what they are afraid of, while others may not be able to clearly explain what they are afraid of, but they just feel afraid.

3. Neuromotor restlessness. I feel restless, anxious, rubbing my hands and feet, pacing up and down, making more small movements, unable to concentrate, and I don’t know why I am so anxious.