Why did it hurt so much the first time?

Transforming from a girl to a woman is a huge change in life. In ancient times, this change happened on the wedding night. As people’s ideas become more open, many young people now have premarital sex. Female friends are often very nervous when they have their first time, because many books say that it is very painful the first time, and only when you experience it yourself will you know what that pain is like. Why is it so painful for a woman’s first time?

1. Overview

For every woman, the first time is a must. The first night is something that people look forward to but are also afraid of. Many girls think that the hymen will rupture during the first sexual intercourse, and this symptom must be very painful. In fact, under normal circumstances, a girl’s first time will not be very painful. The reason why girls feel it is very painful the first time is because they do not have enough emotional and psychological preparation during the first sexual life, and they have symptoms of tension, which leads to the phenomenon of pain for girls the first time.

2. Steps/Methods:

1. The reason why girls feel pain the first time is because they are inexperienced or nervous when they have sex for the first time. It is easy to feel pain during sex at this time. Because of nervousness, the whole body will be stiff. Men may also become nervous due to the influence of women, which will cause girls to feel very painful the first time.

2. Many girls do not have enough foreplay during their first sexual intercourse. Most girls only have a short foreplay during their first night, which will lead to insufficient vaginal secretions and insufficient vaginal lubrication. At this time, pain may occur when the penis is inserted.

3. The pain a girl experiences the first time may also be due to the incorrect posture she adopts. Some women are uncooperative with men during their first sexual intercourse due to lack of experience, shyness, etc. At this time, the method they adopt is incorrect, and they may also experience pain symptoms during their first sexual intercourse.

3. Notes:

It is indeed a bit painful for girls during their first time, but this pain is caused by many factors. In fact, the hymen is rich in blood vessels but has only a small number of nerves. The rupture of the hymen itself will not cause obvious pain. Therefore, when girls have sex for the first time, they should relax and enjoy the first time to avoid pain.