Why didn't it hurt the first time?

In ancient times, people attached great importance to the existence of female hymen. Many people regarded the hymen as a symbol of female chastity. Many women who were born without hymen were labeled as unchaste. They could not survive in their husband's family and their parents' family would also feel ashamed. With the development of society, more and more young people now try marriage before getting married. Many men don’t understand why their girlfriends still feel pain even though it’s not their first time?

In fact, pain is related to sexual skills and less secretion. Generally, girls will not feel pain during the second sexual intercourse, but it varies from person to person. If a girl's vagina is particularly narrow and the boy's is relatively large, then it will not only be painful the second time, but the girl will feel pain until she gets used to the boy's size.

Moreover, foreplay is very important in the whole intimate process. If the girl's vagina is dry, and the boy rashly and forcefully enters, both parties will feel pain, and in severe cases, there may even be bleeding. At this time, you can first arouse the girl's interest. If that doesn't work, you can also use lubricant to make the girl's vagina fully moist before entering, which can reduce pain.

Of course, if the boy’s technique is particularly poor, he will also hurt the girl. Generally speaking, the vagina that has just started sexual intercourse is very fragile. If the boy's movements are rough or awkward, it is easy to hurt the girl. Boys can learn some skills in this area by watching some adult films. After all, it would be embarrassing if it were known that they have poor skills.

China is a relatively feudal country. The older generation does not like premarital sex, but young people nowadays do not mind it. There is even a widespread phenomenon of cohabitation before marriage. After all, it is very important to know how your partner is doing in bed. If after marriage, the partner is impotent, it will be a great harm to the girl.

However, regarding the issue of premarital sex, I hope all girls can take good care of themselves. Don't have promiscuous or casual relationships. If a boy strongly asks you to have sex with him but you don't know him well, you must keep your original intention.

If you don’t take good care of yourself, how can you expect others to take care of you?