5 tips to help you quickly break through a woman's psychological defenses

Men often say that women's hearts are like needles in the sea. That's because men don't really treat women with their heart. What women want is very simple, perhaps just a little sense of security. You can impress her from the small details of daily life. Here are five ways to break through women's psychological defenses and quickly win the heart of the goddess.

1. Wear clothes she likes

If a man wants to attract women's attention, he should first understand what women like in terms of clothing and dress himself according to their appreciation. Even if it is not the style you are used to, occasionally giving yourself some new attempts may bring unexpected surprises. In addition, an interesting psychological study found that women subconsciously think that men wearing red clothes are sexier and more attractive. If you don’t understand her preferences in clothing, you might as well try wearing a red coat to attract her attention.

2. Be considerate

Women are very sensitive, so they appreciate "considerate men" very much: for example, they can give her a warm and reassuring hug when she feels uneasy; they can give her a shoulder to lean on when she needs it; they can open the car door for her like a gentleman before getting out of the car, etc. When you can give her meticulous care in details, her heart will be balanced and coordinated, and then you can slowly become her confidant and lover.

3. Listen to her feelings

Most women are used to speaking out about their inner distress. At this time, don't rush to enlighten them, because for women in distress, what they need is a listening ear, not guiding opinions and suggestions. If you rush to tell her what to do or what not to do, you may make her even more agitated. During the listening process, you should pay attention to eye contact, express understanding appropriately, and give her a sense of empathy.

4. Let her see your ambition

The greatest charm of a man lies in his successful career. Young people have not worked for a long time and cannot be considered "successful in their careers". At this time, you have to make women feel that you are an ambitious person. You can talk nonsense about other things, but you cannot be vague about this issue. You must tell the woman that you are full of confidence in the future, you are not satisfied with the status quo, and you already have long-term plans. Only when she feels you are reliable enough will she feel at ease to give her heart to you.

5. Respect women's slow pace in sex

A study by psychologists shows that when it comes to sex, men prefer fast and women prefer slow: women want longer foreplay such as verbal communication and loving touches, and sex that comes naturally is more romantic. Therefore, men should not rush into sex. In addition, women appreciate men taking the initiative to take sexual protection measures, which will make women feel that they are caring about and protecting themselves, and can quickly increase their sense of security with you.