Why do women like to be touched privately?

Why do women like to be touched privately? During sexual intercourse, touching the clitoris is a prelude to the entire sexual life, just as touching the nipples, inner thighs, etc. can trigger sexual impulses. Of course, this touch must be gentle and affectionate. At the peak of the female sexual response cycle, the glans clitoris is essential for…

During sexual intercourse, touching the clitoris is a prelude to the entire sexual life, just as touching the nipples, inner thighs, etc. can trigger sexual impulses. Of course, this touch must be gentle and affectionate. During the peak of the female sexual response cycle, the glans clitoris is particularly sensitive to direct stimulation. Why do women like to have their clitoris touched?

We know that the clitoris contains rich sensitive nerve endings, whose density is 6 to 10 times higher than that of the surrounding tissues or the glans penis. The clitoris is innervated by the dorsal clitoral nerve, a very small branch of the pudendal nerve that terminates in a plexus of nerve endings on the glans and body of the clitoris.

The larger nerve bundles of the dorsal nerve of the clitoris are irregularly distributed with proprioceptive stimulation-related annular corpuscles, which play an important role in transmitting afferent impulses caused by somatoform stimulation. The annular corpuscles are responsible for deep pressure and proprioception, and their number and quality vary greatly, which explains why women require such great differences in the stimulation techniques and intensities when masturbating.

The clitoris is also rich in free nerve endings that are very sensitive to touch. This shows why the clitoris is so sensitive to touch. If the clitoris is stimulated skillfully, it can easily arouse a woman's sexual desire, and often make a woman reach orgasm without the need for sexual intercourse.

Generally speaking, stimulating the body of the clitoris is more effective than directly stimulating the glans of the clitoris. In addition, the clitoris often requires long-term, continuous and strong stimulation. After all, it is separated by a layer of foreskin, so it has good tolerance. Especially when it is close to orgasm, it needs to be stimulated more forcefully and to a greater extent. The process of stimulating the clitoris is not only a moment to mobilize women's subjective initiative and sexual desire, but also a moment for women to quickly transition from the excitement period to the plateau period. Women must actively participate, act as a good guide and commander, and clearly point out to men their most sensitive parts and favorite stimulation methods. They should communicate fully at any time to correct deviations or deficiencies in men's stimulation techniques. Otherwise, letting the man ask questions blindly and randomly will not only waste time and energy, but will also make the woman feel disappointed and irritated.

Different women sometimes experience very different feelings when their clitoris is touched. Some women like men to gently touch their clitoris before sexual intercourse, which gives them a comfortable feeling; others are afraid of men touching their clitoris and feel very uncomfortable. In fact, this is mainly a psychological reason. Generally speaking, many people who are afraid of men touching their clitoris lack sexual knowledge or have a low cultural level. Although they do experience physical pleasure, most of them think that this pleasure is abnormal, and some even think that it is directly related to pregnancy. Quantitatively speaking, there are not many people who do not want to be touched by men. According to statistics, 2/3 of women prefer clitoral stimulation, and only 1/3 of women prefer vaginal stimulation. Women who are willing to accept clitoral stimulation believe that the pleasure brought by clitoral stimulation is far stronger than that brought by vaginal stimulation.

In most sexual positions, the penis cannot directly stimulate the clitoris. Moreover, when the sexual response enters the plateau phase, due to the contraction of the female perineum muscles, the clitoris will retreat from its usual hanging position to the deep part of the clitoral hood, close to the front border of the pubic symphysis, and thus away from the vaginal opening. This retraction makes it more difficult for the penis to come into direct contact with the clitoris. In fact, during simple vaginal intercourse, the movement of the penis in the vagina will indirectly stimulate the clitoris by pulling the labia minora and the clitoral foreskin connected to it back and forth. Especially when the penis is pulled outward and the foreskin returns to the glans or coronal sulcus, the diameter of the penis increases by a few millimeters, making it easier for the clitoris to be indirectly stimulated. Since the clitoris and its surrounding areas do not have corresponding lubrication function, women's clitoris will feel pain if the stimulation is too strong. If rough actions or foreign objects are used for stimulation, not only will it fail to cause pleasure, but it may also gradually lead to aversion to the opposite sex, thus affecting the sexual life between the couple.