What should I do if I fail to conceive after four months of trying?

After getting married, having children is a must, but pregnancy may not be successful. There are too many uncertain factors, so you must be prepared in advance, not only mentally but also physically. Don't be discouraged if you are not successful, you can continue to work hard and don't have too much pressure, which will make pregnancy more difficult. The following are some preparations before pregnancy. Both boys and girls must be prepared and have a clear understanding of what to eat and what to use. Things like smoking and drinking must be eliminated, and more attention should be paid in daily life, so that you may give birth to smarter children.

If both spouses want to have children as soon as possible after marriage, they must be prepared psychologically and spiritually, including:

1. Accept the special changes during pregnancy: changes in the wife's body shape, diet, mood, lifestyle, and increased dependence on her husband.

2. Accept the changes in living space in the future: The birth of a new life will make the couple feel that their living space and freedom are smaller than before, and they often find it difficult to adapt for a while.

3. Accept future emotional changes: No matter which spouse, after the child is born, they will consciously or unconsciously transfer their emotions to the child, making the other spouse feel emotionally lacking or not valued.

4. Accept the increase in family responsibilities and obligations: A pregnant wife needs her husband's understanding and consideration, especially the physical labor that the wife can usually do, most of which will be transferred to the husband during pregnancy; after the child is born, the husband and wife's obligations to the child and to the family will increase with the passage of time.

Once pregnancy becomes a fact, we need to be mentally prepared to welcome the arrival of pregnancy and childbirth with a calm and natural state of mind, treat the changes that occur during pregnancy with a happy and positive attitude, and firmly believe that we can give birth to a little life that represents the future and complete the mission of bringing him safely into this world. This kind of psychological preparation requires both husband and wife. A husband's adequate psychological preparation can help his wife smoothly go through each stage of pregnancy and lay a solid foundation for the future child's growth and development.

Both husband and wife should be fully emotionally prepared for pregnancy

From woman to wife, from pregnancy to motherhood, all changes are natural processes in life. Therefore, no matter whether it is a newlywed couple or a couple who have been married for several years, no matter it is a wife or a husband, as long as we accept these natural facts and processes with a natural and peaceful mentality, think with our smart brains, communicate with our life partner in a timely manner in our own way, and be vigilant together about the problems or contradictions that may occur in each process or each stage, and deal with and resolve them in a timely manner, then every couple will face everything that happens with a very healthy mentality; every couple will support each other and go through this stage smoothly and safely; every couple can maintain the best state when they were married.

Both husband and wife should be prepared to accept changes in their living space in the future: the birth of a new life often makes both husband and wife feel that their living space has become smaller.

Couples should be prepared to accept future emotional changes: no matter which spouse, after the child is born, they will consciously or unconsciously transfer their emotions to the child, making the other spouse feel emotionally lacking or not valued.

Both spouses should accept the increase in family responsibilities and obligations:

A pregnant wife needs her husband's understanding and consideration, especially the physical labor that a wife can usually do. Whether you are looking forward to pregnancy, or you are just going with the flow, or you are confused, worried, or scared about what may happen, or even if you are pregnant before you have time to make any basic preparations, even so, once pregnancy becomes a fact, you must accept it happily.

You should know that pregnancy and childbirth are not diseases, but a normal physiological process that most women have to go through. We need to be mentally prepared to welcome pregnancy and childbirth with a peaceful and natural state of mind, treat the changes that occur during pregnancy with a happy and positive attitude, and firmly believe that we can give birth to a little life that represents the future and complete the mission of bringing him safely into this world.

Any situation during pregnancy is inevitable, so keep a happy mood and don’t put too much pressure on yourself. Maybe it will be better if you relax. Your wife can do some physical activities and exercise more to prepare yourself mentally. Congratulations!