Three trump cards that determine a woman's fate

1. Women should have their own goals in life

As long as you don't want to be a rootless duckweed, blown away by the rain and wind, you must have your own goals. It can be big or small, noble or ordinary, no matter what your goal is, it cannot be without it.

2. You don’t have to be a “strong man”, but you must be a strong person.

For a woman, no matter what time or age she is, she must never lose herself. Not only should we learn to be independent financially, but we should also enrich ourselves spiritually. In this way, even if you are in adversity, you will not lose the motivation to pursue and the spirit of progress.

3. Not only marry the right man, but also enter the right industry

The most important factor in career development cannot be ignored, that is, you must enter the right industry! In this way, we can avoid taking the wrong path, taking fewer detours, and avoiding going back!

4. Have a heart that is not satisfied with the status quo

You have stopped, but the whole world keeps moving forward, even faster. Just as time is passing away every moment, your "current situation" is becoming a successful history every moment.

5. Only by focusing on your work can you achieve your goals

The scorching summer sun is not enough to make a match ignite, but by using a convex lens to focus the light on one point, even the winter sun can make matches and paper burn.

The second card: networking: weaving a network of women

1. Good popularity is a woman's lifelong wealth

People often say: knowledge + connections = success. In this society where success depends on collaborative efforts, having the ability to create good relationships is crucial for a woman who wants to succeed. Good popularity is a person's great wealth. If you have good popularity, your career will be successful and your life will be happy.

2. A woman’s indispensable friend in life

A woman without friends is pale. It not only means that when you encounter misfortune, there is no one to share your pain. Even when facing happiness, having no one to share your life is a punishment.

3. Keep a proper distance from your friends

In interpersonal communication, two people are like two rails, they can go far only if they run parallel. In the process of communication, we should maintain a certain distance, not only to leave a certain space for the other person psychologically, but also to maintain a certain distance physically.

4. Touch people’s hearts with sincere actions

People who treat friends with a sincere attitude and practical actions are more likely to capture their friends' hearts and win others' respect than those who only express their enthusiasm with their mouths.

5. Find your own confidant

It is a great happiness for a woman to have a male confidant. However, in real life, not every woman has a male confidant, and a man who can be a male confidant must be the best among men.

The third card mentality: A good attitude is worse than a good fate

1. Women without confidence have no market

Whether a woman is beautiful or not is not determined by her appearance; the key is whether she has confidence in her heart. The world is created by self-confidence. Full self-confidence is an important condition for a woman to embark on the journey of beauty.

2. A positive attitude makes women successful

A positive and optimistic attitude is the blooming flower in a woman's life and the mature fruit of a woman's soul. Only when a woman sows beauty and hope in her heart and cherishes and controls her own destiny, can her journey of life be filled with joy.

3. Jealousy is a fire that hurts yourself if it doesn’t hurt others.

Everyone has jealousy in their heart, and it is like a flame that will burst out from the bottom of their heart from time to time. If you don't know how to suppress and calm it, and let it burn, it may become a fire that originally intended to ignite others but ends up burning yourself.

4. Anger is a chronic poison

Anger is like a chronic poison. Although it will not cause physical discomfort all at once, it will slowly erode your beauty and health bit by bit. This is terrible. People say that women who get angry easily are ugly. This is probably what they mean.

5. Women, learn to find happiness

Every woman has her own happiness, and there are different happinesses at different stages. It depends on whether you know how to look for it. Learn to find happiness and enrich this happiness in different stages of your life. Even if you have nothing, as long as you have happiness, you are the richest person in the world!