What kind of woman is most attractive to men?

When men choose a mate, they mainly consider two orientations. One is social orientation: economic conditions, family, occupation, etc.; the other is personal orientation: the woman's appearance (looks, figure, skin color), quality (education level, interests, cultivation), character (moral quality, how to deal with people), temperament (character, temper, etc.). Social orientation is a changeable factor. The social orientation of people when choosing a spouse during the Cultural Revolution was very different from the social orientation of today. Personal orientation is relatively stable. For example, the point that people look at appearance first is true for everyone, both in ancient and modern times, in China and abroad.

①Better appearance

This includes three aspects: one is appearance and charm, two is body shape and three is skin color. When men choose a mate, they usually put appearance first, that is, they focus on the sexual and physical attraction of the other person. If they are not satisfied, they often don't want to talk about it anymore. This is different from women's choice of mate. The woman may not like the man at first sight, but she will often take other aspects related to the man into consideration, such as his wealthy income and satisfactory family situation. The woman will take into account the man's enviable social status and even his great compatibility with his mother, so she will not reject the man outright but will be willing to make tentative contact, which may lead to a marriage in the future.

② Gentle and virtuous character

This emphasizes the natural beauty of women. In terms of personality, women generally tend to be "emotionally socially oriented" while men tend to be "work-achievement oriented." The so-called gentleness and virtuousness, specifically, means being gentle and considerate in the relationship between husband and wife; being gentle and elegant in dealing with people; and being virtuous and generous in treating you and your children.

③ Strong sexual demands

Compared with women, men focus more on sexual attraction when choosing a mate. This is similar to the first point, “better appearance”. Someone conducted an experiment on men who were looking for a mate. As soon as he closed his eyes, his mind was filled with the best movements, clothing, and facial expressions of the woman. These are the beautiful fantasies and emotions caused by sexual impulses. A young man's large amount of "sexual thoughts" in fantasy will directly affect his motivation for choosing a mate. This is a normal physiological response and should not be regarded as obscene.

④The woman is younger than you

Since men seek beautiful figures when choosing a mate. The feelings are pure. It is natural for a woman who is gentle, virtuous and sexy to want her partner to be younger. Generally speaking, younger women have a stronger attachment to men's love, while men are most easily attracted to and conquered by women. The two can be said to complement and enhance each other.

The above are the common trends of almost all men in choosing a mate, and the following three points are the common trends of most men in choosing a mate.

⑤ Knowledgeable, but reserved

Men like their spouses to be educated, and no one likes a silly girl. But the woman herself must know how to hide her knowledge, restrain her wisdom, and not deliberately show off her intelligence. She must do her duty and be worldly-wise. Although the man may keep silent about this, he will naturally be convinced and will like and respect the woman.

⑥Ingenuity

That means knowing how to "adapt to circumstances", knowing when and how to obey men, and knowing how to appease them; and knowing when and where to show your wisdom in a timely manner to make men admire you. Know how to listen respectfully to a man's story at the right time and show appropriate respect.

⑦Be considerate of others

If a wife can understand her husband's hard work and his kindness towards her and their children, and does not nitpick over everything and does not argue more loudly than her husband, the husband will naturally like her from the bottom of his heart.