Women should never say these three sentences at a gathering

Women are born to like to form alliances, share happiness and pain. Especially at the end of the year, many women are very keen on gatherings. In this relaxed atmosphere, some women are willing to talk about everything, from big choices in love and career to small quarrels between husband and wife, how to choose lipstick and socks, and even whether they have a lover... However, gatherings often end in unpleasant situations. Dr. Yuan Hong from the Institute of Psychology of the General Hospital of the Armed Police Force reminds that you should not be too open-minded with your close girlfriends. There are three sentences that you must not say:

1. "You are not as good as me in this aspect."

Some people say: women usually regard the same sex as their natural enemy. This is not surprising, as a joke goes: when two pairs of men and women meet face to face, the man looks at the woman opposite him, and the woman also looks at the same sex. Because women generally do not regard men as opponents, and women have a certain self-contempt when facing men, so women's enemies will eventually "lock" the same sex. Generally speaking, women are stingy with their praise for the same sex, and are also more stimulated by the disdain of the same sex. No matter what the reason, if you tell your female partner that she is not as good as you in some aspects, even if it is only a very small aspect, it will at least make your female partner unhappy for three days, or even blame you forever. Therefore, no matter how good your friends are, sincerely complimenting her "the color of today's lipstick is so beautiful" and "this dress is really suitable for you" will only enhance your friendship and make your female partner regard you as a person who does not need to be on guard and can be a true friend.

2. "Why is your husband so useless? Divorce him!"

Women will always talk about everything in private, but you must grasp a very important principle: never casually comment on your girlfriend's husband or give her advice on how to deal with family crises. Perhaps you are also indignant for your girlfriend's experience and anxious for her stupid husband, but you must not easily speak out about principled issues such as divorce, because you cannot guarantee that your girlfriend will tell you that she regrets it ten years or three to five years later. Remember, if your girlfriend cries to you that her husband treats her badly, you must not follow her to scold her husband as a "good-for-nothing", and you must not persuade her to separate early, because she is just impulsively looking for comfort, and she does not regret her choice.

3. "You did the same thing last time. Why do you always make the same mistake?"

As a woman, there are two things that you will never forget. One is the love story; the other is your own embarrassment, which includes tripping over your skirt in public and making a solemn promise to a man who made a mistake. If you say the same thing to your girlfriend, she will understand it as: "Someone else still remembers your last embarrassment." Women's minds are fragile, and friendships between women are also fragile. Remember, the role of friends is to help friends affirm themselves, not to deny. So don't always mention your girlfriend's past or embarrassing things, even if you are kind enough to remind her not to make the same mistake again out of love for her, it will make your friends embarrassed at the party and greatly threaten the friendship.