Nine dangers of not being a virgin

A shortcut to happiness for men: when was your wife's last menstrual period? What physical and mental discomforts does she experience before and after her menstrual period? What other expectations does your wife have for your sex life? Why does your wife keep getting pregnant despite taking contraceptive measures ? What preparations has your wife, who is nearly 40 years old, made for menopause? Have you proactively and promptly dealt with conflicts caused by household chores? Perhaps many husbands cannot answer these questions fluently!

Question 1: Cervical cancer

Some experts believe that current medical research has confirmed that most cervical cancers are caused by foreign viral infections. Paying attention to personal hygiene habits and wearing condoms during sexual intercourse can prevent the occurrence of cervical cancer.

What men should do: Develop and maintain good personal hygiene habits.

Question 2: Breast disease

Many married women have varying degrees of sexual indifference, which may induce many breast diseases.

For women who have a normal sexual life, their breasts experience cyclical changes of congestion, swelling and subsidence, which is beneficial to promoting blood circulation inside the breasts. Sexual apathy leads to long-term objective suppression of sexual desire and lack of sexual satisfaction, which makes the congestion and swelling of the breasts difficult to subside or incomplete. Persistent swelling will cause breast pain and discomfort. Studies have found that sexual indifference or disharmonious sexual life are important factors causing breast hyperplasia. Depression, loneliness and anxiety caused by adverse mental stimulation are catalysts for lobular hyperplasia of the breast.

What men should do: Maintain good communication with their wives regularly to make them mentally relaxed, happy, and have a healthy sex life.

Problem 3: Contraceptive failure

Some experts have observed women who took certain antibiotics while taking birth control pills and found that the reason they became pregnant was that the antibiotics inhibited the intestinal bacterial flora, thereby affecting the absorption of birth control pills in the large intestine and reducing the concentration of birth control pills in the blood.

What men should do: If your wife takes long-acting contraceptives, remind her to be careful about taking other drugs that are incompatible with contraceptives, and to change bad habits. For example, if you are 35 years old and take long-acting contraceptives, it is best to quit smoking, otherwise it is easy to increase the risk of breast cancer.

Question 4: Bleeding after sex

Cervical polyps will rupture and bleed during sexual intercourse, and blood will be found in the husband's genital area after intercourse.

If the husband has no physical injuries or other reasons, the problem of his wife's cervix should be considered. There is also cervical cancer, whose early symptoms are vaginal bleeding after sexual intercourse. The impact on the posterior wall of the bladder may aggravate the mechanical friction of the stones and cause bleeding. The same may be true for cancerous tissue. If your wife has hematuria after sex, she must be diagnosed and treated early.

What men should do: Carefully check your own and your wife's body for subtle changes after each sexual intercourse.

Question 5: Menstrual syndrome

Premenstrual syndrome Premenstrual syndrome During the 57 days before a woman's period, blood flow to the pelvis increases, which may cause swelling and cramping, leading to bloating or abdominal pain. The muscle contraction during sexual intercourse can accelerate the blood flow out of the pelvic area and enter the general blood circulation, reducing pelvic pressure and thus alleviating abdominal discomfort.

What men should do: Understand your wife’s physical condition before menstruation and provide her with intimate help in a timely manner.

Question 6: Vaginitis and long-term lack of sexual life

Women with vaginitis who have not had sex for a long time are more likely to suffer from vaginitis, endometritis, salpingitis and other diseases. Experiments have shown that there is an antibacterial substance called semen plasmin in semen, which can kill pathogenic bacteria such as Staphylococcus, Streptococcus, and Pneumococcus. Therefore, sexual intercourse helps protect female reproductive organs from invasion by microorganisms.

What men should do: Maintain a stable sex life with their wives.

Question 7: Menopausal Discomfort

Women who have regular sex have much higher estrogen levels than women who have sex occasionally. This will strengthen the physiological function of the ovaries, normalize menstruation, and delay menopause. In addition, every sexual intercourse will increase vaginal secretions and prevent dryness of the vaginal mucosa.

What men should do: Work with their wives to establish a harmonious sex life.

Question 8: Osteoporosis

Women's bones start to become porous around the age of 35. Sex can regulate cholesterol, maintain bone density, slow down osteoporosis, and make the whole person look light-footed and more flexible.

What men should do: Let your no longer young wife still enjoy the sex you give her.

Problem 9: Decreased sexual desire

Life stress can have a significant impact on sexual function. Excessive selfishness, jealousy, despotism and dependence in the family will all lead to conflicts. Frequent quarrels over financial power and trivial matters are most likely to cause a wife to feel disgusted, indifferent or passive towards her husband's sexual demands.

What men should do: Take the initiative to deal with family conflicts in a timely manner.