What does it feel like to have sex after giving birth?

In daily life, many pregnant mothers will encounter such a difficulty, but many female friends cannot grasp the degree. What does it feel like to be intimate after giving birth? This issue is also of concern to many expectant parents, but it also reveals a problem. Usually, people lack education and training on postpartum sexual life, which is not good. This is a very important point of knowledge, and all prospective parents must learn it.

1. Is it not necessary to have sex for the first time after giving birth?

1. Romantic surprises can arouse the sexual desire of new mothers

When you are eager to live an intimate life, but the new mother is not ready yet, you need to express your love more, create some little romance and surprises in life, and make your wife feel like you are back to the time when you were dating. Hug and kiss your wife every day, tell her that she has become more beautiful after giving birth, and give her confidence.

2. More touching during foreplay

The first time having sex after giving birth, a new mother may be more anxious than the first time. Therefore, before sex, in order to relieve his wife's anxiety, the husband should caress his wife more. Adequate foreplay can not only add interest, but also improve vaginal lubrication. Women who have just given birth often experience vaginal dryness during sex, especially mothers who are exclusively breastfeeding. If necessary, you can use some lubricant to reduce embarrassment and discomfort. At the same time, in order to ensure the wife's rest, it is recommended that each sexual intercourse time should not exceed 30 minutes.

3. Be gentle

It’s not long after a new mother’s vagina has recovered after giving birth, and it’s very easy for her to feel dry and painful during intercourse, especially the first time after giving birth. The husband should be gentle, take it slow, find a comfortable posture, and let the mother control the rhythm. Always pay attention to the reactions of new mothers. If a new mother feels uncomfortable the first time, she may have to wait longer before having sex in the future.

4. Don’t be too fancy

After giving birth, the energy of a new mother may be reduced. New fathers should not try too much "fancy sex". Try to cooperate with the feelings of the new mother and do it in a way that makes her feel comfortable. Of course, you can also put forward your requirements, but don't be too demanding.

5. Safe contraception

After giving birth, it takes more than half a year for the function of the new mother's uterus to recover to the level before pregnancy. If she becomes pregnant again before recovery, whether it is miscarriage or pregnancy again, it will be bad for the new mother's body. Therefore, she must remember to take contraceptive measures during sex. The best way is to use condoms. Emergency contraception may not be suitable for breastfeeding mothers.