How long did it hurt the first time?

Girls will experience pain and bleeding when they have sex for the first time. This is mainly caused by the rupture of the hymen. Therefore, when men and women have sex, they should pay attention to foreplay to let the girl's body completely relax. They should also pay attention to sexual safety to reduce the girl's pain. Generally, there will be no pain after one night of intercourse for the first time. Girls should pay attention to vaginal hygiene.

How long does it hurt for a girl the first time?

The pain will only last for one night and then it will go away. Just bear with it, and you will feel good afterwards. In a natural state, the front and back walls of the vagina fit well together. When a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa is subjected to unprecedented fresh stimulation, and our brain must recognize this new sense of touch. If we recognize this new feeling as touch, a feeling of being stretched, or a feeling of fullness, we will not have an emotional reaction of fear; if we have a presupposition in our minds that the first night must be painful, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as pain, making us fearful and afraid, because everyone is afraid of pain; if we have positive expectations for sex, then we will recognize this feeling as strong sexual stimulation and sexual sensation, which will make us sexually excited. This is something that can be explained with common knowledge of psychology; it is not mysterious.

To sum up, whether analyzed from a psychological or sociological perspective, the concept that the first night must be painful is untenable. This is something that restricts women's normal sex life and enjoyment of sexual pleasure. Women should change their unscientific sexual concepts based on scientific knowledge of sex, get rid of the fear of first night as soon as possible, and enjoy sexual happiness.

What should men and women pay attention to when having sex for the first time?

1. Good environment and sufficient time

The location of your first sexual encounter is very important. Therefore, the first thing to do is to choose a suitable location. This location should be safe and comfortable, which will help both of you reduce the tension of the first time. A girl's bedroom is a good place.

The timing of sex is also important, choose a time when your family, roommates, and friends will not disturb you. Create a relaxed environment and reserve enough time when making love so that everything can be done in a leisurely manner.

If the environment for sex is not good or the time is very tight, it is better not to have sex. Because it is easy to fail when having sex in a bad environment or with tight time, this can easily cast a shadow on your future sex life.

2. Don’t get too excited

It is natural to be excited that something that has been anticipated and eagerly hoped for for many years can finally come true. But often the failure of first-time sexual intercourse is due to being too excited. An overexcited brain is extremely sensitive to sexual stimulation, which can easily lead to inability to achieve an erection or "trigger ejaculation" (premature ejaculation), and sexual intercourse failure, which is normal.

If you feel that you are too excited, don't rush to go to bed, and don't rush to get straight to the point and go straight to the Huanglong Cave. You can calm down first, both parties sit on the sofa, take off your clothes at this time, and don't panic too much when facing each other's naked body in a bright environment. Let both parties get used to each other's naked body and have gentle contact. This will relax the overly excited brain nerves and avoid a situation that can break out at any time.