What to do when a girl feels pain for the first time

In our lives, when many men and women have sex for the first time, women will feel particularly painful. Such pain will prevent women from continuing, and it will also cause certain damage to the male body. So at this time, we must master a method to make women not particularly painful. Men can make foreplay longer. So what should girls do if it hurts the first time?

How painful is it for a girl's first time?

Why do most women say "the first time hurts"?

In a natural state, the front and back walls of the vagina fit well together. When a foreign object is inserted into the vagina for the first time, the vaginal mucosa is subjected to unprecedented fresh stimulation, and our brain must recognize this new sense of touch. If we recognize this new feeling as touch, a feeling of being stretched, or a feeling of fullness, we will not have an emotional reaction of fear; if we have a preconception in our minds that the first night must be painful, then this new feeling will naturally be recognized as pain, making us fearful and afraid, because everyone is afraid of pain; if we have correct expectations for sex, then we will recognize this feeling as strong sexual stimulation and sexual sensation, which will make us sexually excited.

1. After my wedding night, I realized that those scenes in novels and on TV were too exaggerated. The first night was not that painful at all. The hymen is a thin membrane, more fragile than plastic paper. Due to years of practicing dance and playing sports, there is not much area left, so I didn’t feel any pain at all. Otherwise, why do we rarely hear married women say that their first night was extremely painful?

2. After getting married, I realized that many women would cry out in pain during their first time (first night). This is entirely due to their high mental tension. Because the woman is nervous, her whole body is stiffer than before, and the man is affected by the woman and also becomes nervous. As a result, because the woman is not relaxed, the man's penis is not aligned with the vagina and the woman will cry out in pain.

3. A woman's first time (first night) is said to be very painful, which is also a kind of art of married life. Since China has always had a virgin complex, if your husband finds out that it is your first time, he will cherish you even more. In addition, due to the lack of rich sexual experience, it is also common that the first insertion is only in the urethra, and urethral insertion is definitely painful.

4. Other reasons for pain cannot be ruled out, such as inserting when the vagina is dry, or the movement is too large.

How to relieve the pain of a girl's first time

1. Spend more time on kissing, hugging and caressing, which is called "foreplay", to make the woman fully excited and moist. This will make the woman's vagina more and more moist, and will also reduce a lot of pain during entry.

2. If it is still dry, not exciting enough, and the vagina is not moist enough, you can use lubricant to moisten it. During the entry process, it is best for women to actively tell men about their feelings, so that two-way communication can be achieved, and the angle and amplitude of entry can be adjusted at any time to reduce pain;

3. The woman should tell her how she feels at the right time, and the man should try to move gently and with a smaller amplitude;

4. Changing positions, for example, side by side or with the woman on top, will improve the situation;

5. If the pain persists or bleeding occurs frequently after sexual intercourse, you should see a doctor to prevent disease.