How do women maintain their mystery?

In the minds of some women, you think that as long as you have a pretty face, you can attract men's attention. In fact, a good-looking face is not entirely the most important reason to attract men. Some women, even if they are not that good-looking, can still attract the attention of many men because of their own charm. Usually these women have a charm called mystery. So how should a woman maintain her mystery?

Why is a woman's mystery so attractive to men?

To put it simply, mystery is the so-called unknown. A mysterious woman will arouse a man's desire to explore more. The reasons why it is so attractive are mainly due to the following:

1. Comes from sexual attraction.

2. Comes from high value. Think about it, if you entered a QQ group whose overall value is lower than yours, would you unconsciously speak less, show off less, be very low-key and mysterious? Does an occasional remark or two make people think you are of high value? I think the mystery of women is actually a by-product of high value. And when a high-value male appears in a group, he is bound to gain leadership by showing off. This is the difference between men and women.

3. Mystery is like suspense, which is fascinating.

What kind of women do men think are the most mysterious?

1. The desire to know more was strongest before the promotion, and although there was still some desire after the promotion, it was obviously less;

2. The girl may seem to be secretive, not wanting to let you know, or wanting to give you a surprise.

3. Intersperse indicators of interest and indicators of lack of interest to make him feel that there is an opportunity but it is not easy to get it. This can maximize the man's desire and interest in conquering.

4. When men ask you when you are the most beautiful and charming, they are just preparing for the next action. They don’t actually think so in their hearts.

5. After that kind of relationship occurs, the girl will control her instinct and not keep the boy around her. She will not focus entirely on the boy and will focus on herself, which will increase the girl's value in the man's heart.

6. Be able to keep things to yourself and don’t tell everything to others.

How to stay mysterious in front of men

Don't talk too much about yourself

Mysterious women basically play the role of listeners and don’t always talk about themselves. This is also one of their characteristics. For men, women who don’t often discuss their own affairs will make them feel “I really want to know more”, and then they will gradually become interested in this woman, which will arouse his curiosity and endless imagination about you. So don't talk too much about yourself, like always only talk about 70%.

Learn how to reply to messages

If you have just met each other, even if you have a good impression of him, you must not reply to him immediately. The best frequency is 5 times a day. After you start dating, you don't have to wait for his message every day, as this will easily drain your passion. The essence of contact is to make the other person think "Why hasn't she replied to me yet?" If possible, keep in touch with each other a little bit every day, but not too often. Through constant contact with each other, you can make the other person pay more attention to you.

No casual meeting

Even if you really want to see him, don't accept his invitation easily. If you are friends, you can use "I'm busy" or other euphemistic excuses to refuse when he invites you for the first time, but it is best to say yes when he invites you the second time (because many straight men will think you have no feelings for him and give up). In addition, don't show your excitement. If it is an invitation after dating for a while, girls should not agree every time, especially if it is a sudden invitation.