What should I do if my wife has no sexual desire?

For a couple, if they can have a good sex life, it will be good for the physical and mental health of both parties, and it will be helpful to their feelings for each other and even the entire family. However, in real life, couples often encounter some obstacles in their sex life. For example, some men find that their wives have no sexual desire and may have sexual frigidity. At this time, we need to find the reasons, which may be psychological factors or physical reasons, etc., and we need to solve the specific reasons.

What should I do if my wife has no sexual desire?

Low libido is generally divided into two categories: functional and organic. The former is mainly caused by mental and social factors, while the latter is mostly caused by chronic diseases. It is difficult to distinguish organic and mental causes clinically, and it is impossible to distinguish them by laboratory methods. It is also unreliable to use the frequency of sexual life as a standard, because this is affected by each person's quality, social conditions, cultural level, and the influence of both men and women. It must be judged through repeated observation, analysis of the cause, and the patient's response to treatment. The incidence of patients with low libido is higher in people with a high cultural level. Because traditional concepts with feudal colors are often reinforced through education and cultural influences. And the incidence of low libido in men is lower than that in women, but in some families that strongly emphasize "unclean living" and "sexual behavior is harmful to the body" or have a tradition of abstinence, it often causes strong sexual inhibition.

Low libido is caused by many factors. In addition to the physiological phenomenon that aging can cause low libido, the factors that cause low libido are roughly the following: inhibition of sexual behavior, fear of sexual arousal, too little caressing before sexual intercourse, general relationship problems between husband and wife, lack of sexual attraction of spouse, excessive sexual intercourse, work fatigue, emotional tension, anxiety or depression, organic diseases of the body, and side effects of certain drugs, etc. Individual differences in sexual desire are great. Even for the same individual, the level of his sexual desire varies periodically. Therefore, many scholars believe that low libido is more difficult to deal with than impotence. Because if the factors that cause low libido cannot be eliminated, it is unlikely that the sexual desire itself will be improved.

Sexual apathy. Generally, the reason for sexual apathy is lack of interest in sex life. The reasons include starting sex too early after childbirth, excessive fatigue, improper contraceptive measures, and reproductive system diseases, which can all lead to aversion and disgust towards sex life.

Western medicine treatment is mainly divided into psychotherapy and drug therapy. Psychotherapy methods include eliminating fear, overcoming prejudice against sexual life, improving couple relationships, etc. The main drugs used for drug treatment are sex hormone drugs and antidepressants. For organic diseases, the corresponding drug treatment should be selected according to the primary disease.