What should I do when my wife is in menopause?

When a woman is 50 years old, her personality may become very bad and her physical condition will decline rapidly. This is an obvious manifestation of menopause in women. Many men will blame their wives at this time due to lack of relevant common sense. In fact, this approach is very wrong. When a wife reaches menopause, not only should she not be blamed, but she needs more care. If you find that your wife has entered menopause, as a husband you can do the following.

What should I do when my wife is in menopause?

Develop a common interest

Women who enter menopause will feel inexplicably irritable and uneasy, and have a lot of random thoughts all day long. Sadness has always arisen for no reason since ancient times. Instead of spending so much time thinking about messy things, it is better to develop a common hobby with your wife, such as growing flowers, or studying health preservation. You can also raise pets according to your physical condition and living conditions. This will not only enrich life, but also enhance the relationship between husband and wife, and can divert the attention of menopausal wives so that they don't think about things all day and get sick for no reason.

Often praise my wife

Women of all ages like to be praised by their men. Even if they don’t act like they care much, they are actually quite happy in their hearts. After all, no one hates nice words, right? I remember there was a female neighbor in her forties or fifties who kept telling everyone that her husband was cheating on her. In fact, the man was an honest man who worked all day to make money. Later I found out that the wife had entered menopause and felt that her husband disliked her, otherwise why did he never praise her good qualities. Although it is laughable, it is also a certain psychology of menopausal women and deserves serious consideration. Besides, what's wrong with praising your wife? If your wife is happy, you will naturally have fewer worries, right?

Reduce her burden in life

Although menopause is not a very serious disease, the outcome is difficult to predict if it is not adjusted in time and not treated properly. Another thing is that menopausal women are prone to physical and mental fatigue. If there are too many tedious things in life, on the one hand, menopausal women will be physically overwhelmed, and on the other hand, it will also have a great impact on their spirit. The mother of a colleague of mine also has obvious symptoms of menopause, but she has to take care of the whole family, including the elderly and children and grandchildren, and she has no time to rest every day. On New Year's Eve one year, I drank pesticide in the house. I feel like I'm busy all year round and my life is meaningless, so I might as well get rid of it sooner rather than later. Don’t think this idea is stupid. The emotions of menopausal women are sometimes so extreme that they need their family members to pay attention to them.

Take a walk with her every day to relax

Dudu has an old neighbor in his hometown who gets along very well with Dudu's parents. She entered menopause in her forties. Her children were away from home to school all year round, and her husband had a bad temper. The couple often quarreled and even fought. At first, her family didn't think there was anything wrong with her. Later, they discovered that she was alone in a corner all day, talking to herself. Later, she developed the habit of not wanting to see anyone, and even refused to sleep or wash her face. Then a clean-loving person looks unkempt and very thin. Later, Dudu's mother often took her out for walks. After about a week, she seemed to have recovered a lot. In fact, what I want to say is, don’t rely on your spouse to accompany you throughout your old age. No matter how good your children are, they have to live their own lives. No matter how good others say, they will not accompany you for your whole life. Only your spouse can accompany you throughout your life. If you don't treat your significant other well, who will care about you when you are alone and miserable? It is not difficult to accompany her to relax every day, as long as you can walk.