What to do if my wife has no interest in sex

The men around us almost always demand sex, but sometimes we find that our wives have no interest in sex. Many people will wonder if they have cheated on their wives. But in fact, there are many reasons that lead to various situations. For example, problems in the relationship between husband and wife, childhood trauma, or other bad habits of women may lead to low sexual desire. The following is an explanation of the reasons for low sexual desire in women, and specific solutions. I hope it can help you solve your troubles.

What is female frigidity?

Sexual apathy, also known as lack of sexual desire or coldness, is one of the sexual dysfunctions or disorders and is a common sexual dysfunction in women. The main manifestations are that women lack sexual desire, have no demand for sexual life, express indifference, dislike or disgust towards sexual intercourse, and feel anxiety, discomfort or pain during sexual intercourse.

In most places, more than 25% of women have experienced or still experience sexual apathy. Only a few women can reach orgasm almost every time they have sexual intercourse, and about half of women have more or less experienced not reaching orgasm.

What is the reason for women's sexual frigidity and lack of sexual desire?

Due to improper childhood education, psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious influence or adult role models, lack of sexual knowledge, poor sexual experience and fear of sexual intercourse, etc., people develop prejudices against sexual life, such as believing that sexual intercourse is dirty, obscene, unclean, a sin and a punishment, which leads to disgust, aversion and fear towards sexual life.

If the couple's relationship is not harmonious, they do not trust, are suspicious of or dislike each other, and they are worried about pregnancy but have no reliable contraceptive measures, normal sexual satisfaction will be suppressed and sexual apathy will occur. Poor living conditions interfere with sex life, and being unhappy and distracted makes it difficult to arouse sexual excitement.

Either the woman has a serious habit of masturbation and the pleasure during sexual intercourse after marriage is not strong enough, or the man has sexual dysfunctions such as impotence and premature ejaculation, and the woman cannot get sexual satisfaction. These are the reasons why women become frigid and have no sexual desire.

What are the dangers of women being frigid and having no sexual desire?

If a woman is sexually apathetic, her breasts will become engorged and swollen, which will be difficult to subside. If this continues, it will cause breast pain and easily lead to diseases such as breast cancer. If there is negative mental stimulation, loneliness and anxiety, they can also be the "catalyst" of breast lobular hyperplasia. Eventually it leads to endocrine disorders and makes you prone to lobular hyperplasia of the breast.

Moreover, sexual indifference can easily induce breast cancer. Data show that unmarried women of advanced age, women with impaired sexual function, and widowed women, if they do not have sex, have a significantly higher risk of developing breast cancer than other groups. Therefore, female sexual apathy cannot be ignored.

What to do if a woman is frigid and has no sexual desire?

1. Diet adjustment

It is advisable to eat more foods that have the effect of nourishing the kidneys and strengthening libido, such as leeks, carrots, dog meat, mutton, bird meat, bird eggs, river shrimps, sharks, turtles, squid eggs, and royal jelly.

Here is an effective diet recipe: first soak black beans, black rice and red beans for 2 hours. Wash the soaked ingredients twice with clean water, and also wash the sesame seeds and walnuts lightly. Then put the washed ingredients and appropriate amount of water into the soy milk maker, press the switch, and let the soy milk maker automatically beat and cook the milk. After the soy milk maker is finished, pour the paste into a bowl, add appropriate amount of brown sugar, stir well and you can drink it. It is effective in treating low libido in women.

2. Acupoint massage

The patient lies on his back, and the operator rubs the lower abdomen with his palms in a clockwise and counterclockwise direction, 30 times each. Press the Qihai, Guanyuan, Zusanli and Sanyinjiao points for 1 minute each. The patient lies in the prone position, and the operator presses the kidney point, heart point, liver point, and life gate point with one finger for 1 minute each. Rub the area below the Jingmen point on the left or right side of the back with your palm for 5-10 minutes. The patient then lies on his back, and the operator uses the four fingers of both hands to knead the patient's Yinlian and Wuxing points on the upper inner side from top to bottom, passing through the Yinbao to the Yinlingquan point below the knee, and repeats 3-5 times.

Natural herbs such as bee pollen, turnip leaves, hollyhocks, saw palmetto, and Siberian ginseng have certain therapeutic effects on low libido.

3. Diet therapy

① Spring Warm Soup

15 grams of ginseng, 15 grams of Morinda officinalis, 15 grams of Atractylodes macrocephala, 15 grams of Eucommia ulmoides, 9 grams of Psoralea corylifolia, 3 grams of cinnamon bark, and 15 grams of Cuscuta australis. Decoction in water, 1 dose per day, twice a day.

②Shengyangzaoshi Decoction

3 grams of galangal, 3 grams of dried ginger, 3 grams of Prunus mume, 3 grams of licorice, 1.5 grams of tangerine peel, 1.5 grams of astragalus, 0.9 grams of white sunflower, 0.9 grams of bupleurum, and 0.9 grams of cimicifuga. Decoction in water, 1 dose per day, twice a day.

③Yin nourishing and moistening soup

30 grams of Ligustrum lucidum, 30 grams of Eclipta prostrata, 30 grams of Polygonum multiflorum, 15 grams of Lycium barbarum, 15 grams of Morinda officinalis, 12 grams of Ophiopogon japonicus, 12 grams of Cornus officinalis, and 3 grams of dried tangerine peel. Decoction in water, 1 dose per day, 2 times a day, 6 days as a course of treatment.

④ Guixin Decoction

12 grams of cinnamon heart, 12 grams of calcined oyster, 12 grams of peony, 12 grams of dragon bone, 12 grams of roasted licorice, 12 dates, and 15 grams of ginger. Grind the above ingredients into coarse powder and decoct in water for oral administration.

What to do if a woman is frigid and has no sexual desire? The above is what the editor introduced to you, I hope it will be helpful to you.