The story of not being able to return to one's parents' home during confinement

Pregnancy and childbirth are truly a "big event in life" for women, but the whole process is not pleasant. Not to mention the various troubles during pregnancy and the intense pain during childbirth, the most troublesome thing is the postpartum confinement period, which really gives pregnant women a headache. What is the historical story behind why you cannot visit your mother's home during confinement?

1. It is inconvenient for pregnant women to stay at their parents' home for confinement.

After giving birth, it is best for pregnant women to recuperate at home. It is not convenient to recuperate at her parents' home. When she is short of things and cannot get to her parents' home, she has to run back and forth several times, which is very inconvenient. It is hard for her mother and the pregnant woman herself. It is not only inconvenient to go back to her own home during the recuperation period, but also very inconvenient after the recuperation period. The body of the pregnant woman is also very weak after the recuperation period. It is best to recuperate at home.

2. Pregnant women do not often live with their parents after marriage, so it is inconvenient for their husbands to take care of them.

Many people say that after a daughter gets married, her husband becomes her mother's one and a half children. After all, the husband does not live with his mother, so there will definitely be communication problems. If the pregnant woman is in confinement at her mother's home, it will be very inconvenient for the husband to take care of her, after all, it is not in his own home, and he will definitely not be used to it. But if you do the confinement at home, it will be convenient for your husband to take care of you, and it can also give the pregnant woman time to rest, which is beneficial to her recovery.

3. If there are several brothers and sisters in the family, it is very easy to have disputes.

If a pregnant woman goes to her parents' home to recuperate after childbirth, and if there are brothers and sisters-in-law at home and they are easy to talk to, then it would be a good place to recuperate after childbirth. When the brother and sister-in-law have difficulty communicating, the inconvenience will become greater. There is no doubt that there will be problems in everyone's relationship. During the confinement period, you will have to listen to the sister-in-law's bad words, endure her anger, and quarrel with her. This is very detrimental to the postpartum recovery of pregnant women.