How do women maintain their sexual appeal?

Sex, like life, will change over time from passionate to calm and soothing, and then to aging and disappearance. In our lifetime, how to make sex last longer, couples more harmonious, and families more harmonious between men and women, especially between husband and wife, is a practical problem we have to face. The freshness, passion and attraction of sex are important fulcrums for maintaining a stable marriage.

So, how we can keep sex, love and soul fresh so that they don't become tired prematurely and affect family and marriage is a topic worthy of study. Sexual fatigue and aesthetic fatigue are particularly prominent among men, so it is crucial for women to understand this issue. In other words, delaying sexual fatigue is about how to maintain a woman's sexual attractiveness. The longer a woman's sexual appeal lasts, the greater her charm will be, the less likely a man will cheat, and the more stable her family will be. So, how do women maintain their sexual appeal?

A little independence. Independence means financial independence. Women cannot rely on men for everything. In other words, a woman should not only have sex, she should have her own career, her own life, and her own thoughts. Sex is just an appendage of human beings. An independent woman will take her sexuality to a higher level, and a thoughtful woman will make her sexuality more attractive. Once a woman loses her independence, sex becomes her everything, and she will separate from herself and become dependent on men. Then in the eyes of men, her sexuality becomes simple and she becomes an object for men. Of course, one's own objects will not have much attraction to oneself. Because humans have always been such monsters.

A little mysterious. Mystery is distance and change. Distance creates beauty, change creates charm. People should not be too close to each other, and should not be indistinguishable from each other. When people are too close, their shortcomings will be magnified and their advantages will be reduced. Having a little distance, a little privacy, and a little secret is the choice of a smart woman. Make a man always feel that you are two meters away from him, and he can hug you as long as he stretches out his hand or takes a step forward. But you were not in his arms. He won't get you that easily. Even if it's just a small favor, he has to raise his hand. And your changes can make you more mysterious, create a certain distance between you and men, and keep you sexually attractive enough. Changes include speech, behavior, clothing, thoughts, way of talking, way of making love, etc.

A little concern. Women must care more about men, and must make men feel this care. In fact, the so-called emotion is concern. The more you care about him, the more he cares about you. Caring can make a man feel a kind of happiness beyond sex, thus further increasing the weight of sex. A little care, a little longing, a little loneliness, and a little melancholy can all increase your female "sexual" charm.

A little silly. Women should not be too shrewd, should not be petty, should not worry about gains and losses, should not be suspicious, and should not be full of doubts. None of this helps your sexiness at all. On the contrary, being a little more silly will make you look more adorable. If a woman is a little silly, men will not be on guard against you. A woman appears more sincere when she is a little silly. If a woman is a little silly, it is easier for her to arouse a man's masculine passion to care for her. Of course, being silly doesn’t mean being really silly, it means pretending to be silly, and being silly to the right degree!

Let go a little. It's important to let go. A woman who can't let go will lose much of her charm. Women should let go of their desire for money, their pursuit of power, their love for vanity, their control over men, their expectations of their children, their demands from their parents, their fear of men's infidelity, their aging of appearance, their pursuit of happiness, their obsession with gods, their intoxication with love, and their hopes for the future. Let go of some of your material possessions, worship your body, calm down, relax and restore your vitality.

The above five points are indeed very important. If a woman can do these things, I believe her sex appeal, even if it can't stay forever young, will at least delay aging!