Smart women should not fall in love in four situations

Don’t say that fools have good luck, that’s just self-consolation. No matter when or where, the smart bird will catch the worm. There is only one premise, that is, being truly smart and not being clever. In a split second, this person and that person make different judgments - and their fate changes. Life is like a roller coaster, the ups and downs are like good times and bad times. There are things you should do and things you shouldn’t do. It depends on your choice.

One period of unemployment

It is an old saying that a woman's virtue lies in her lack of talent. When a woman has her own career, she will have more confidence in speaking out. Only by not being dependent on men can you have the right to be equal to men. Women have to fight for this themselves, men won't just give it up. When you are unemployed, you should focus more on finding a job. Don't rush into a relationship. To find a man to marry you requires not only good looks but also capital.

Second frustration period

People always have ups and downs. When they are lucky, they can even pick up money while walking; when they are unlucky, they can even fall down at home. Let’s not be superstitious, but in life, eight out of ten things are not as we wish. As the saying goes, everything goes wrong. At this time, it would be irrational for you to fall in love with anyone. Preserve your strength and keep your troops in place. If you wait for the right opportunity to strike, you will definitely get twice the result with half the effort. Never force yourself to do anything or not do anything, adjust your state first.

Three love-breaks

The stupidest thing to do is to use a relationship to forget a relationship. The wound is still bleeding, and anyone you get close to will be hurt. The sorrow of old love can only be forgotten by time. Just say it's okay? It's not that easy. Unless you treat feelings as a joke. During a breakup, it is best to sort things out quietly. After the scab has formed, greet the next person and the next relationship with the best attitude. In this way, the pain of a broken heart can be minimized.

Four lost marriages

This is an enlightened era, and divorced women still have their own spring. But, I always think: I was beaten back to my original form, from two people to one person again. Resistance in thought directly leads to restraint in behavior. After all, once bitten, one will be afraid of ropes for ten years. Love is possible, cohabitation is possible - but if you enter the siege again, there will probably still be psychological trauma. I always want to find a partner to spend the rest of my life with, so I’ll scan and target it.

After these sensitive periods, love as if you have never been hurt!