Mature woman's confession: orgasm experience

"I think the first time I learned about phone sex was from some celebrity gossip. When I first saw it, my boyfriend and I were very confused for a while. Later, he was assigned to work in another place for nearly a year. Of course, we often talked on the phone before going to bed at night. It is inevitable that we would have some... thoughts after talking too much about love. I don't remember how it started the first time... But is this considered masturbation? It should be a kind of non-contact sex. Our code word is TML." - Liu Lian, 32-year-old full-time wife

"My experience was purely accidental. I was on a business trip and stayed in the same room with a colleague. When I was showering at night, maybe because my period had just ended? I didn't expect that I would be so sensitive. When I used the shower head to wash, the water jets quickly made me go from itchy to out of control... I don't remember how long that period lasted, but the feeling was unexpected and wonderful. Until now, I have always been worried that my colleagues in the room might have heard something." - Qiangwei, 29-year-old salesperson

"When I was a kid, I liked sleeping with a pillow between my legs. I first knew about masturbation before I got married. I usually masturbate more when I'm not satisfied with my sex life; when I'm satisfied, I don't want to masturbate. I think it's completely my own business and I don't feel guilty. I feel like I can fall asleep easily after masturbating. My husband knows that I masturbate sometimes, and he's more accepting of it." - Daojing, 33-year-old insurance practitioner

"At this age, I am not married and I don't have a boyfriend. Maybe it's because I wasted too much time studying in the past few years. Anyway, I just got through it. I am relatively conservative about things between men and women, and I can even say that I am relatively repressed. Others have already seen me as a monster. No matter what others think, I know that I am still normal physiologically. Of course, I can take care of my physical needs myself. At that time, I often fantasized about some very extraordinary stories, even some perverted stories. This would make my feelings more intense." - Fang Fang, 35-year-old lawyer

"I don't know if this counts as masturbation, but every time I imagine it, I squeeze my legs together, and I can get high quickly." - Corning, 33, a public relations officer

"I did it when I was curious, but my mother saw me and scolded me. I still remember her shameful expression. I didn't do it for some years. After puberty, I used it as a punishment or reward. If I didn't do well on the exam, I would punish myself and swear it was the last time. Later, I had a boyfriend and didn't do it much, except when I was heartbroken. Now my husband and I are often so tired that we don't even think about it for ten days or half a month. Masturbation? It seems to have become history." - Youyou, 30-year-old private company manager

"I'm a nurse, I'm 25 this year, unmarried, and I don't have any complete sexual experience. In the obstetrics and gynecology department, I often hear married patients talk about their sexual experiences, but when it comes to words like orgasm, I can only pretend to understand. It was this year that my boyfriend's hand let me know that... Of course, I didn't let him continue. To this day, my boyfriend and I still maintain a bottom line. However, afterwards, I often try to repeat that feeling by myself, which is indeed unimaginable. Of course, in addition to the physical experience, there is another benefit. When listening to some patients' oral accounts, I will secretly feel a little proud. I know this." ——A 25-year-old nurse

"My pleasure is not given by men, but by myself. Every time I only stimulate the clitoris, without inserting my fingers, and I don't need those various dildos or anything like that. I feel that it is very hygienic to do so, and I don't have to worry about the health of my sexual partner.