6 little tricks to make him hold you in his hands

Finding a man who loves her is every woman's dream. But reality is such a joke. Sometimes, you fall in love with someone who just happens to have a cool personality. Although he cares about you, he rarely shows it. Women are very confused about this: Does he like me? Why do you seem to care about me at all? This kind of confusion may not affect the relationship between two people under normal circumstances, but if it is coupled with the pressure and twists and turns in life, these small problems may become the fuse at any time.

1. I accept everything about you

Who doesn’t want her boyfriend to be muscular, handsome, talented and graceful? But we all know that such men are too hard to find. Instead of asking your boyfriend to change, why not accept his true side, tell him that you love his beer belly and his snoring, tell him that you appreciate everything about him, and regard his shortcomings as his characteristics. In this way, both of you will not care whether the other meets the standard of perfection. Isn't it easy? On the other hand, to love someone means to love all the good things about him as well as the bad things about him.

2. I like your friends

You don't like your boyfriend's friends, you hate their loud talk and you hate them taking up your boyfriend's time. But if you criticize them in front of your boyfriend, he will think you are picky and don't give him face, and that you don't recognize his friendship and loyalty. So no matter how unhappy you are, don't say it. Anyway, if you want to be with your boyfriend, you will always have to learn to get along with them. Just pretend to like them first, and then quietly use your schedule to squeeze out the time he spends with his friends.

3. I am willing to work like a cow or a horse for you

Nine out of ten men are lazy, so when you first start dating, show your consideration to let down their defenses, say sensibly: "Let me help you clean up," and then pretend to enjoy doing housework. Let them gradually get used to your presence and become dependent on you, and then slowly train them to do housework by themselves and urge them to wash their socks.

4. I love your family

Not everyone can meet good in-laws. No matter how uncomfortable you feel getting along with your boyfriend's family, don't tell him that you don't like it. This may hurt his feelings. A smart daughter-in-law would do this: treat his family kindly, meet less often, and give more gifts. Tell him that you love his family, that you will do your best to avoid conflicts between you and your family, and that you can schedule meetings around birthdays or holidays.

5. You are right

Your boyfriend knows a lot, but he is also a little overbearing. He always wants to compete with you when talking to you about everything. He suddenly raises his voice on the street. It is unwise to quarrel over some harmless issues. A smart woman will give your boyfriend face and coax him: "You are right, what you said makes sense." This is only a temporary concession, because you know that one day you will make him admit defeat with a sincere heart.

6. I don’t mind you looking at other women.

When your man stares at other women, your girlfriend will feel a little uncomfortable, right? At this time, instead of kicking the woman away or turning your boyfriend's head back and scolding him, you might as well lie to him: "I don't mind you looking at other women." If he is still too naive, then when you are with him, just exaggerately scan the handsome guys around you and see if he will restrain himself.

All the skills and tricks are to enable you and your partner to communicate better and deepen your relationship. When using communication skills in a relationship, you need to remember your original intention: to make both people happy. If you have to put the cart before the horse to get it, then this is a technique you don't need.