Is it the husband's fault that women are cold?

I believe that sexual indifference is not innate. There are many unfathomable factors involved, some of which are closely related to the husband.

1. Psychological shadow

In some individual cases, it is because the woman has been violently assaulted by a man, but we should show more care and protection to such women. Even if she is incompatible with others, we should not complain about her. After all, she has suffered enough harm, and we cannot demand anything from her.

2. Wrong sexual concepts

For some women, the problem of sexual apathy when they grow up is most likely because they have accepted wrong sexual concepts since childhood. For example, living in a very traditional family, strict elders have always taught that sex is wrong, a good woman should not enjoy sex, having sex with men is a very shameful thing, etc. When a woman is exposed to such ideas since childhood and has normal sexual desires when she grows up, she will naturally try hard to restrain herself. Over time, she will naturally develop into sexual frigidity.

3. Lack of sexual skills

"Women are made of water and are meant to be loved". I believe everyone knows this, but often they know it but cannot do it well. As a man, you really need to improve yourself, otherwise there will be no more women interested in you in this society. In many cases, we have to take into account women's bodies and moods. If you only care about your own desires and want to be satisfied, and don't care about the feelings of your lover, then you may lose more happiness in the near future. People are equal. Don't ruin all your future sexual happiness because of your momentary lust.

4. Pain or discomfort during sexual intercourse

Some men are more patriarchal and think that their wives are their private property. When they are happy, they don't care whether their wives are interested or not. After drinking, they go to bed and ask their wives for it. They don't care about their wives' interests. They just take out their guns and go into the cave, fight in a hurry, and then go to bed happily. Aren't such men forcing their wives to dislike them? This is the consequence of your lack of understanding of romance. It would be strange if you are not sexually frigid over time.

5. Spouse change

Some women suffer from sexual frigidity due to some external factors. When a woman knows that her husband has slept with another woman, how much interest will she have in being as passionate with her husband as before? Isn't this the man's own fault? Many times, we can't happily swim in the cave because we don't take good care of our guns.

If a husband finds that his wife is sexually frigid, he should not blame her or even use violence. Little do people know that the reason for women's sexual indifference is closely related to their husbands' actions. Husbands, please reflect on yourself!