The holiday is coming to an end, but the children are still not paying attention? These 4 methods can improve children's attention

Does your doll have this situation?

As soon as I finish my homework, I want to go to the toilet;

When you read a book, you need to drink water;

Anyway, I can’t concentrate when I’m studying!

It's like a conditioned reflex.

But you said he has attention problems, right?

When playing games and watching TV, he is more serious than anyone else!

Why is it so difficult to get your child to concentrate on studying?

Is it possible to improve the doll's attention span?

Why does our baby have such poor concentration?

Dear parents, your child is not concentrating on studying.

Sometimes you really can’t blame him!

Come on, dear fathers and mothers, don’t be so anxious and criticize your children!

As the children's first teachers, if problems arise, you should reflect on yourselves first.

Have you done these four behaviors that affect your child's concentration?

01

Frequent criticism and denial of children

This can easily undermine the child's self-confidence and make him feel inferior, thinking "I can't do anything right". It will also make him unable to concentrate on his work because he is afraid of making mistakes and being criticized!

Typical manifestations

Parents say words with negative connotations like "You can't do this? Why are you so ignorant?" every day.

02

Over-attention and pampering of children

Today’s dolls are the embodiment of the love of the whole family. However, this excessive attention and love for dolls may sometimes make children develop a dependent mentality, making it impossible for them to concentrate on their work and lose the ability to think independently.

Typical manifestations

When the baby wants to do something by himself, you always say, "Be good, put it there, mommy will come."

When the baby is concentrating on doing something, the whole family can't wait to stare at him and everyone wants to guide him how to do it!

03

Inconsistent parenting style within the family

When parents treat their children in two different ways, every time the child does something, most of his energy will be consumed just by thinking about who to listen to.

This will not only undermine the authority of his parents in front of him, but also make him feel at a loss and unable to concentrate on one thing.

Typical manifestations

Regarding "Should I do my homework first when I get home on weekends?"

Dad said: "It's been hard studying for a week, take a good rest first!".

Mom said: "Learning comes first, do it first and then play!"

04

Always use words and materials to stimulate the doll

Everyone’s attention span is limited, especially for children whose brains are not fully developed!

Think about it: when a baby is doing something and you keep nagging beside it, will the baby listen to you or concentrate on doing its job?

Or, when you want to buy toys and books for your doll, you want to move the store home. You think it is for the good of the doll, but in fact, it will make them not know how to make choices?

Just like a table full of dishes, all of which are your favorites, you don't know what to eat, let alone savor each dish carefully!

Of course the doll has poor concentration,

Can’t blame the parents entirely!

After reading this, I believe some parents must say, I didn’t do any of the above four inappropriate practices, why do my children still have poor attention span?

Don't worry, everything has its objective reasons . Please read on:

01

The younger the child, the harder it is to concentrate.

According to psychological experimental research, children's brain development is not perfect, and the development of the nervous system and brain micro-functions is unbalanced, which will lead to children's inattention. Therefore, the degree of children's concentration is proportional to their age.

In other words, the older the child gets, the better his attention will become. At the same time, the book "Developmental Psychology" (9th edition) also mentioned that the reticular formation, the area in our brain that regulates attention, will not be fully myelinated until adolescence.

Therefore, I ask all parents, please do not compare your children with yourselves for no reason, and give them more time to grow up, okay?

02

Poor diet and sleep

For example, if a child does not eat breakfast for a long time, is picky about food, eats too much at every meal, or has poor sleep quality, dreams, insomnia, stays up late, gets up late, etc., it will directly affect his concentration.

Of course, the fact that poor eating and sleeping will affect concentration also applies to adults!

03

The child is diagnosed with ADHD

ADHD is a behavioral disorder characterized by attention deficit and hyperactivity, which causes children to be distracted and overactive. Generally speaking, if a child is diagnosed with ADHD, it will lead to inattention.

However, parents must be reminded here that whether their children suffer from ADHD should be confirmed by professional hospitals and professional doctors. Don’t scare yourself!

After all, not every child with attention deficit disorder has ADHD, so parents must keep a calm mind!

How to improve my baby's concentration

These 4 methods are all super effective!

Okay,

About how to cultivate the attention of dolls,

That’s all I have to say!

As to whether this goal can be achieved

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It still depends on parents to practice it seriously!

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Written by: Li Junya

Map: Dong Zhou, Li Junya