Why do the more outstanding children tend to be more distant from their parents? Is it true that outstanding children do not take care of their parents?

There is no parent who does not want their children to be excellent, and there is no parent who does not want their children to have a promising future. Even criminals hope that their children can be good. Children are independent individuals, not appendages of their parents. Morality should not be used to hold children's future hostage. Let's take a closer look at the article below!

Why do the most outstanding children tend to be more distant from their parents?

The more outstanding the child, the greater his wisdom and courage, and the greater the chance of him moving away from his parents.

Take this colleague's son for example, he made a girlfriend who is equally outstanding. He works in Beijing, and his girlfriend works in a government agency in Macau. The distance of thousands of miles makes them miserable. For the sake of his girlfriend, he decided to give up his enviable job.

He discussed his ideas with his parents and proposed a plan to start his own business. Seeing that his son had made up his mind, his colleague and his wife agreed with his son's opinion, although they were a little unwilling. In this way, his son quit his job in Beijing and went to Macau.

In order to support their son's business, the colleague and his wife took out their own savings. Because their son was smart, courageous and knowledgeable, the company soon got on the right track.

So in a sense, the more outstanding the child, the greater the chance of him or her being away from his or her parents.

Is it true that outstanding children do not provide for old age?

There are many such examples around me. The better the children are, the more pitiful their parents will be in the future. Especially those families with poor conditions, who have worked hard to raise their children, and the children live far away from their parents in big cities to work hard, buy houses and cars, and send their children to school. The monthly expenses are huge, and they can't take care of their parents at all, and their parents have to eat coarse food in their hometown.

Those children who are not outstanding live with their parents. Although their life is not rich, they can accompany their parents and do things for them. Especially when their parents have a headache or fever, there is someone around to take care of them.

Some people say that outstanding children are raised by others, which makes sense.

Do you want to raise your child to be an excellent person?

As the saying goes, "I hope my son will become a dragon and my daughter will become a phoenix." Every parent hopes that their children will be outstanding. Meng's mother moved three times and the mother-in-law tattooed her daughter. These stories are all examples of hoping that their children will be knowledgeable, have ideals and ambitions.

In this world, I believe that no parent wants their children to be mediocre and accomplish nothing. Even if their children are excellent and fly away, it is much better than being uneducated and incompetent.

Therefore, this parent's words speak for many people. But I believe that everyone understands the meaning of this sentence and will still create all learning opportunities for their children and work hard to make them excellent.

Even if their children are far away from them, parents will not regret it. Because their children are stronger and better, and their ability to survive is stronger, so their worries will be reduced. In the hearts of parents, as long as their children live well, they are satisfied.

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The poet Gibran has a poem called "Your Children Are Not Really Yours", in which there are a few lines that are particularly suitable for this question:

Your children are not really yours.

They are beside you, but they do not belong to you.

You may shelter their bodies, but not their souls;

For their souls belong to tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams;

You can try your best to be like them, but don't try to make them like you.

You are the bows from which your children are the arrows.