Why do people get married soon after a blind date? What happens to people who get married after a blind date?

What happened to those who got married soon after a blind date? As they get older, many men and women are forced to go on blind dates due to pressure from their families. They have no feelings for each other after the blind date, but are forced to be together. Many people worry that they will regret it if they get married without feelings, and they will not be happy at all. In fact, if you meet someone you don’t like on a blind date, you can refuse. Which one would you choose, love or bread?

Why do you get married so soon after a blind date?

You will find that those who get married quickly are either forced to marry, or are too old, or really can’t find the right person, or they just find an honest person. The most important reason is that they “lack the strength”.

There is no such thing as pure love in blind dating. It is more like a "value exchange". If you don't have such ability, forget it. Only when two people are equally matched will you be arranged to meet, otherwise you won't even see each other. What is this? This is the living reality.

No one can escape this, life is like this, there is no such thing as love, it is all about oil, salt, sauce and vinegar, to put it bluntly, it is just making do. If you date for too long, you don’t want to get married, you can only find someone to live a stable life with, this is the real reason for flash marriage.

Will couples who get married through blind date be happy?

Let’s take a look at two real cases of marriage through blind date.

1. A wife who is unsure of herself tells her story

My husband and I met through a blind date. After getting to know each other, we found that we were quite suitable for each other, so we got married. He is good in every way. He almost hands over all his salary every month, and he is also filial to my parents. We rarely quarrel, but we don’t talk much. I heard that he had a failed relationship before. I can’t tell what was wrong, but I always suspect that he doesn’t love me enough.

2. My cousin who got married after a blind date is very happy

My cousin met her husband on a blind date and decided to get married a few days later. After getting engaged, the two of them officially entered into a relationship from a blind date. With the care and love of her husband and the support and recognition of his parents, my cousin was spoiled like a child. After marriage, their relationship continued to grow, and with the birth of their child, the family was so happy that others envied them.

How are the blind date marriages going?

As I get older, I think many people choose blind dates out of helplessness, but I always feel that blind dates are just a way or means to get to know others. Just like dating on your own or online dating, it only serves to get to know the other person, and it cannot determine your marriage. But in real life, when you hear about blind dates, you are already labeled as someone who can't find a partner or can only accept your fate.

Sometimes, blind dates can also lead to love, but in the blind date environment, many people feel forced because of age and family pressure. Indeed, due to the increase in age and parents' urging to get married, we also have a lot of troubles, which has also brought many changes to our psychology.

I don’t know if you have experienced this, but the older you get, the lonelier you feel. When you see your peers getting married, your loneliness starts to grow. At this time, some people go on blind dates with the mentality of just getting by, and then get married after meeting each other once and if they like each other, if they are lucky, they will find someone to spend the rest of their lives with. If they are unlucky, they will live a marriage life worse than death.

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