Why can't I borrow money when I'm in trouble? Does it mean that I have bad character?

There are many reasons why people can't borrow money when they are in trouble. It has something to do with how you behave, but it's not a big deal. The two can't be equated. In real life, people who can lend you money are your benefactors! However, there are fewer and fewer such people! Let's take a look at the following article to learn how to borrow money.

Why can't I borrow money when I'm in trouble?

People's difficulties can be divided into urgent and minor ones.

If you are in urgent trouble, most people you know will help you and repay you as soon as it passes.

Of course, some people think that they don’t have much connections, and they are afraid that they can’t pay it back, so they may not be able to help. I have encountered this. Twenty years ago, I had a job, but I was just running a project and had no income for the time being. When it was getting dark, I asked an acquaintance at the entrance of the company to borrow 5 yuan to buy fruit, but he said he didn’t have it, so I had to go to the dormitory to get it...

If someone is willing to help you, remember to pay it back!

Don’t blame others for not lending you money. It just means that you are not worthy of their trust.

Does not being able to borrow money mean that one has bad character?

Because you have some problems in dealing with people and exchanging gifts, and you don't handle the relationship with relatives and friends very well. Once a relative or friend lent you money, but you didn't return it on time, which broke your promise. When you are in trouble and ask them to borrow money again, generally speaking, they are unwilling to lend you money. As the saying goes, "Be a good person first, then do things." When people live in society, it is very important to be trustworthy and be a good person.

How can I borrow money?

Money is not everything, but without money, you cannot live without it. In society, the only direction is to work hard to make money. Only when you have money can you avoid asking for help from others. Being a good person is also very important in society. If you have good character, keep your word, handle the relationship with your relatives and friends well, pay attention to reciprocity, and help each other, when you encounter difficulties, you will feel the warmth of your relatives and friends, and the warmth of society!

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Your personal or family financial situation is not good, and you need to borrow money for serious illness treatment, house building or other investments. Your relatives and friends may not dare to lend you money because of your poor family financial situation and poor repayment ability.

.Some of your relatives and friends once asked you to borrow money because they were in urgent need of money. Due to special reasons, you were not able to lend the money to them in time. They kept it in mind and felt that you were unwilling to help them. Therefore, when you asked them to borrow money when you were in trouble, they would certainly not lend you money.

If the amount of money you borrow is too large and you cannot repay it in a short period of time, and the financial situation of your relatives and friends is very average, it is normal that you cannot borrow money.