Is divorce due to love between husband and wife? What does a marriage without quarrels represent?

After a few years of marriage, some couples cool down from chatterbox mode to silent mode. When they get home, they play with their phones and start to "communicate" with their phones. The phone becomes the third party in the marriage. When there are doubts and dissatisfaction with the partner, they choose to use silence to hastily resolve the issue. This way of refusing to communicate is negative. Compared with arguing, arguing is an alternative "expression".

Is divorce due to love between husband and wife?

Divorce after a couple quarrels has nothing to do with love or not.

First of all, let’s talk about the quarrel between husband and wife. Most of the couples, when there is a problem, may quarrel to talk about the problem, express emotions through quarrel, and resolve differences through quarrel. The final solution to the problem is definitely not because of the quarrel, but the two sides expressed the problem through the quarrel, and reached an agreement on the solution at the same time. Here, one party compromises or a good solution reaches a win-win situation, so that life can return to a peaceful and harmonious life. Some problems are not solved after quarreling. If it is a big problem, it will also lead to the choice of divorce.

Some couples, when problems arise, may not quarrel, but instead express their problems and opinions in a more tactful manner, so that both parties can communicate peacefully, and of course, problems can be solved in this way.

Of course, when there are some problems that cannot be solved through quarrels or peaceful communication, people may choose to divorce.

Divorce is often caused by the fact that some problems cannot be solved with solutions that both parties are willing to accept, and no win-win situation is achieved, so they choose divorce.

To sum up, whether to quarrel or not is a question of how to solve the problem, and divorce is a question of choice.

What does a marriage without arguments mean?

In the world of love, the real heartbreak is silent. On the contrary, those couples who quarrel all day long can stay together for a long time.

It is impossible for a marriage to be free of conflicts. When conflicts arise, they must be resolved. Although quarreling is not the best way, at least there is communication and there is hope.

A marriage without arguments or quarrels has only one ending, and that is divorce.

Possibility 1: Never loved.

With love, there are calculations. If a marriage is not based on love, then before divorce, as long as both parties have allocated their respective interests and there are no disputes, they can part ways amicably, and they can even continue to be friends after they meet again.

Possibility two: Love has been sublimated into family affection.

Lin Yutang said, "The problem of modern people is that they treat love as food and marriage as a snack. If you live your marriage in the way of love, it will inevitably fail."

Love is the premise of marriage, but it is not the product of marriage. Many couples still get along as if they were in love after marriage, only to find that marriage is the grave of love.

Love in marriage is mostly meant to be sublimated into family affection. If there is too much or too little love, life will not work. There can’t be no love in marriage, otherwise what’s the difference between living with your parents?

When all love is sublimated into family affection, that is also the time when a person wants to leave the marriage, just like when we were children, we wanted to grow up and leave our parents' arms as soon as possible.

Many celebrities’ divorce declarations are “Yes, we don’t love each other anymore, but we are still family.” To put it bluntly, the two of them just have a child, otherwise how can they be family?

Possibility three: Tired of arguing.

For many couples, the process of divorce is a protracted one. They may have been arguing for many years before they decided to divorce. When they have had enough of the arguments and are tired of them, they divorce.

Finally, let me say: Marriage is not easy, so cherish it while you have it.

Can a life with love but no sex be happy?

Love without sex is like thunder without rain. I don’t think such a marriage will be happy.

We all know that opposites attract, which is a magical phenomenon in nature. The fact that men and women work together and do not get tired is proof of this.

As a high-level animal, human beings like each other, which is a spiritual pleasure and enjoyment, but in the final analysis, both men and women have a strong purpose tendency, which is to complete sexual contact and achieve physical and psychological satisfaction. This should be a perfect combination of mind and physiology.

In real life, many people fall in love with the intention of getting married. Many people get married with the intention of having a legal and moral sexual union, having children, and enjoying the love between men and women and the happiness of family.