What does it mean when a woman doesn’t reply to your message?

We all know that in the process of communication between men and women, there will always be various problems. Boys often encounter girls who don't reply and disappear. This is a very common situation. It may be that the girl didn't see the message, or the girl may not want to reply, etc. So how to deal with women who don't reply to messages? Let's take a closer look!

What does it mean when a woman doesn't reply to your messages?

From a woman's subjective perspective, there are several possibilities, which can be used as a reference based on actual conditions:

1. See but don’t want to reply

This situation is very obvious and is a very common phenomenon nowadays. There are different reasons depending on the different stages of the relationship.

This actually has a lot to do with the girlfriend’s personality, so the analysis may be biased.

① Angry

② Not interested in you or the topic of your question

③ After being in love for a long time, both parties feel bored and don’t want to be together all the time, including in social situations…

2. I didn’t reply because I didn’t see it

In this case, the woman did not see the message because she was busy with work or study.

This requires both parties to communicate in a timely manner to eliminate misunderstandings and not let the relationship between the two people be affected by not replying to messages.

3. Cold violence

This possibility is more extreme, and usually occurs when one party intends to break up or has no hope for the relationship.

In fact, everyone is a kind-hearted person, and everyone has a general understanding and guess about the other person's situation. The correct way should be to communicate in a timely manner, make things clear, and not guess at each other.

What to do if a woman doesn't reply to your message

In fact, this question should be answered in stages and according to different situations.

1. The girl is just an ordinary friend and I want to pursue her

In this case, if she doesn't reply to the message, just put it aside. Don't be too enthusiastic, don't let your imagination run wild and make you lose your composure, and don't make blind guesses by sending her messages asking questions like "What's wrong?", "Are you angry?", "Why don't you reply to my message?"

If she doesn't reply to your message, she may be busy, the topic may be boring and she doesn't want to continue, or she may have more important things to do.

At this time, you should look at the chat messages with the girl and capture her emotions.

If she keeps responding actively, then she has something to do, so she doesn't reply to messages.

If she acts perfunctory, it means the topic is boring and she doesn't want to continue. She needs to sum up her experience and find a topic that interests her.

Second, I am in a relationship with a girl, and she doesn’t reply to my messages anymore.

She's probably mad!

Note, first read the previous chat records as quickly as possible. If she is angry, you must find out the reason. Otherwise, blindly apologizing and not knowing anything when she asks you will only add fuel to the fire.

After finding the reason, call to arrange a meeting first. Apologizing in person is better than apologizing over the phone. The worst way is to apologize via message.

How to deal with a woman who doesn't reply to your messages

1. Don’t wait in a hurry

Many people always show a feeling of anxiety when facing a girl who doesn't reply to messages. This feeling of anxiety is because they care too much about the girl and are too afraid of losing the girl, so they show that they need a girl very much. You only have her in your eyes, which leads to this tangled feeling. Therefore, as a man, you must not be anxious for a woman who doesn't want to pay attention to you, because it is useless to be anxious. Since this girl has decided to ignore you, no matter how anxious you are, she doesn't know your anxiety, so you must face it calmly.

2. Think about what to do

After a girl doesn't reply to your message, you must leave this level and think about other things. Only in this way can you make some solutions after the girl replies to your message. You should think about why the girl suddenly stopped chatting with you, whether it is because she has something to do or because she is chatting with someone else. What you need to do is to find another girl to continue chatting with, don't hang yourself on a tree. What you should do now is to ignore her, so that she knows that you also have a choice.

3. Ask occasionally

A man who knows how to chat will not easily send a lot of messages to girls. He will always master a certain pattern to send messages to girls. If a girl ignores you, then he will definitely know that the girl is chatting with other men. At this time, what you have to do is to show your value, so that the girl can understand that you are a better person. After that, you can occasionally ask her what she is doing? This will be much better than sending messages all the time.